Should i allow my girlfriend to talk to male friends 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning?

Question

I dont think its appropriate for g/friends or b/friends to be sittin up on the phone w/the opposite sex all hours early in the morning like 2 or 3

Answer 1

No, it's not appropriate at all... this is CLEARLY a respect issue. You need to Dump Her A_s!

Answer 2

If you asking a should I question then obviously it bothers you. You can't stop your girlfriend from doing anything. You can ask her not to do something, but you really can't do anything about it. You can ask her to stop because you don't think it is appropriate. And if she wants to talk to a male person at 2 or 3 am she can talk to you. But you actually know she is talking to the opposite sex at 2 or 3 am so at least you have to communication. Communicate to her your thoughts and see what she says. She could be doing it to make you jealous because she thinks you don't pay enough attention to her, but you have to ask her that.

Answer 3

Well Hopefully she is nekkid while she is talking on the phone and you can be licking her all over while she talks to the other guy on the other end of the phone,

Make sure you get her to gasp and moan every so often so the guy on the other end of the line will know that while he is talking to her, you are ravishing her in person.

What more could you ask for. A three way with just the two of you!!!!


Best Wishes,

Phil

Answer 4

You can't allow or ban her from doing anything because she is a grown woman and she has to make her own decisions. But you can express to her that it is disrespectful and it makes you uncomfortable. She may be a naive participant but men are only interested in talking to booty they are working up on at 2 or 3 in the morning.

Answer 5

1st thing you can ask yourself is do you trust her ? And well if you do and feel that she's just talking to her friend then I guess it's ok. But if she's having a relationship with this person behind
your back then you need to have a long talk too her. Good luck and I hope all works out for you.

Answer 6

Yes it is...she should be with you at 2 or 3 in the morning, not talkin to some other man. Take it as a hint..

Answer 7

You are correct... That is crazy. Unless the guy is playing for the other team, I would not allow it. You should try to steal way some of those conversations at that time of night and see what happens.

Answer 8

try talking to other women at the same time she is talking to other guys...see how she likes it...betcha things will change after that...don't show anger towards her...or jealousy about it...just pretend that it is perfectly okay...and then talk to other girls...and even if you don't have any to talk to...pretend that you do...or find some...is she like talking on the internet?...on the phone?...in person?...whatever she is doing...then do it too...play her game...but play to win...lol...if you have a cell phone...add some secret contacts to it...be sneaky about it...but let her find it for herself...pretend to talk to someone while she is...see what happens...i mean...after all...is it fair to you that she is THAT disrespectful?...no it isn't...it is not appropriate for her to do that every night...or even a few times a week...maybe once in a great great while...i could understand...but not on a regular basis...what does that tell you?...that she is trying to keep her options open?...well...two can play at that game...good luck to you

Answer 9

Hey she has friends I don't see problem some people like to be up all night and sleep during day. Just ask her about these friends. If you try to control her she will get mad and keep doing it
You need to try and get her to stop on her own

Answer 10

That's wrong. I don't even talk to my old guy friends since I've been w/ my b/f. I feel like I'm cheating on him even though the guy and I are just friends. She may think you are crazy if you ask her to stop, but if she really likes you and wants to keep you, she'll stop.