I am not the most beautiful person in the world,but i am pretty good looking.I am intelligent , in school , make my own money, and am willing to help anyone in need,(unless I felt it necessary not to). So , I was hoping u guys could let me know exactly what it is that ur looking 4 bcuz i cannot seem 2 find anyone willing to at least return my calls.Do u guys think before u say or do certain things? Do u guys realize how much it hurts when someone u care 4 is ignoring u? Do u even care?
2006-07-29 15:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by bkempress718 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, Sweety but I also get hurt when someone tells me they'll call at w/e and don't! And I realize that my health ain't the best so her's prolly ain't either! I'd say I'll call ya but I'm gonna g2bed in a few! Good luck Sweety! Oh & ya never know you maybe the best thing to happen to someone!
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2006-07-29 15:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are trying too hard. Men don't want to be chased, they like to chase. You have to have some mystery about you, some appeal to get a man's interest after you have it, the rest is left up to your personality. Men do not think before they say or do certain things. Do not think that because you do, say, or feel certain things that a man feels the same way. Most of the time men just do not care if they are hurting your feelings and on rare occasions they don't realize that they are hurting you, but do not make excuses for them. I know it seems hard to do, but believe me when you act like you don't care, you don't call that piques a man's interest. He wants to know why you aren't calling, why aren't you interested. Give him a little encouragement, answer his phone calls, but remember don't always be available. And besides you obviously don't like the way you feel when you call a man and he doesn't call you back, so imagine how you will feel when a man is calling you.
2006-07-29 22:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by guiltyinnosense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys look for all kinds of things, it can be anything, eyes,attitude,smile,your body, it can be anything. Just find the thing about you that you like the most and flaunt it. Men think???? I dont think thats possibel, why do you think theres flower shops? Men dot think before we act. well some do. Men know how mutch it hurts but not man enought to deal with it.
2006-07-29 22:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by larrybeveridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME guys care. You sound cool. A major thing is, don't get upset over little things, or get mad at a guy over little things, cuz even though we know its little, we feel like **** for it. Just be chill, and fun to be around, and the right guy will come around. One that cares and loves you. He's out there, theres very few of us like that though =/
2006-07-29 22:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fellahs and guys really don't think to much with the right head , now young men and men do , thats what you need to find if your wanting someone that cares about you
2006-07-29 22:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, there are many guys who are a$$holes, the rest will grow up in time. Well, most will anyhow. Good luck to you, just remember, saying all guys are the same is as wrong as saying all girls are the same, lol.
2006-07-29 22:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mike G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right guy will along and sweep you off your feet. stop looking for him. he will find you, and it is usually somewhere you wouldn't think of looking.
live your life and be happy in what you do. love yourself first and before you know it you will have to beat the guys away with a stick.
Good luck
2006-07-29 22:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have your heart set on one particular guy and he isn't feeling you (at least not showing it) like you're feelin' him.....that's life, not everyone you like will like you back and people you don't like will like you.......somebody said live and learn, it sounds uncaring but it's true.......young people want everything fast, right now......just slow up, pump your brakes and be patient (I know easier said than done). Just be patient and hold steady to your standards, don't settle and the right guy will come along.....
2006-07-29 22:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are looking at things in a one sided way, are you asking the right questions? maybe you set the standard too high, or you have not met the right guy, dont rush or feel you have to be in arelationship, good things come to those who wait, it will be your turn soon, trust in yourself, it will happen in due time.
2006-07-29 22:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be what you think men are looking for, be the kind of person you are looking for. Loving, kind, generous, patient, faithful.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. (NIV Bible).
2006-07-29 22:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋