2006-07-29 15:11:28 · 43 answers · asked by angel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Tell your mom. You are going to need her more than you will ever believe during this pregnancy and you need to see a doctor. Not seeing a doctor can bring unbelievable harm to you and your baby. Weather the storm that will undoubtedly happen and tell her.
2006-07-29 15:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's understandable, mom's FLIP when you tell them that, well some mom's, obviously you have one of those mom's or you wouldn't be scared, BUT, she probably needs to know. I suggest you think about what your going to do first, then go to her and sit her down to talk about it. The reason i suggested you have a plan about what your life will be like with a new child is because the first thing they think about is how THEIR lives will change when YOU have a baby and more than likely it will. Grandparents are a huge part of a child's life when involved in it but you need her support now more than ever, so talk to her about it, she might be mad but she'll come around. No one can look into the face of a beautiful baby and be angry anymore, TRUST me...smile But i hope things work out, obviously this is your first child and it's a bit overwhelming, you need your mom so just do it, talk to her about it..smile
2006-07-29 15:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lene B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, or if not her, pick another adult to tell, one with whom you are more comfortable, and the two of you can figure out a way to tell your mom. But please tell someone, because if you try and keep this a secret, the further along things get, you may eventually be too scared to tell anyone at all, and the usual outcome of that scenario is a young woman giving birth in a bathroom stall somewhere, and then leaving the poor child to die, or if VERY lucky, someone will find the child before it has passed away, unfortunately, the usual end is a very tragic story, so find your inner strength, and tell someone.
2006-07-29 15:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by dukefritz79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are, but do not do anything stupid. You may regret it as you get older. I would just tell her. If you are young and do not think you can care for a child there are plenty of families who would adopt a child and give it a loving home. Talk to your mom she may be mad at first, but time heals everything. She maybe a good source to direct you during this time since she has had a child already. I still ask my dad for advice and he always gives me the best advice no matter what the situation is.
2006-07-29 15:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by ALBPACE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made it telling my mom I was pregnant,,and other girls have faced the same situation. Just do it. It won't get any easier. You will feel so much better telling her and that way you will have some support during this difficult time. Take a deep breath and just do it.
2006-07-29 15:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mom on neutral ground first. Like a coffee shop or diner or park. Tell her you have something very important to tell her. Brace yourself to be strong and stick with your own decision, unless you're not sure what to do, Chances are good that she will be mad and/or disappointed but be ready. If you're a big girl, get a plan in place to do what's right for you. Good luck.
2006-07-29 15:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her anyway. Just spit it out and take a load off of your mind. The quicker you share this, the quicker you both can begin to adjust and get on with your life. It isn't the end of the world. Happens in almost every family at one time or another. It just feels like your in it alone because your keeping it a big secret. Good luck.
2006-07-29 15:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum is going to shocked, dissapointed, upset, and maybe a little angry, but she will get over it~ Trust me seeing her granddaughter/son for the first time~ will put tears in her eyes...
It is also better to her sooner rather then later, because she will be more hurt that you didn't trust her~ If you live away from your mum~ Do it over the telephone, that way she has alittle time to adjust before she see's you...
But don't expect a congrats straight away. it might take a while ~ i'm still waiting lolz...
CONGRATS take care, and all the best
2006-07-29 15:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by due~March~2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first how old are yu? i can only answer if you are of a good age lke 18 and up or 17 and graduated casue thats wheni think a responsible person should have a child. if you are then tell her hey mom i am going to start an family and whatever else personal you have to tell her
2006-07-29 15:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by hunnie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grl u should tell her cuz it aint better the support of ur mom or parents then anybody else u sholud sit her calmly and talk to her and she will be mad at first but at the same time she is a mom and she has to support u either way so dont be scared cuz if u dnt tell her u r going to regret not having the support of ur mom or ur parents and it hurts to be left alone wen u pregenent cuz thats the time u need the most support u can ever have i wish ui the best luck ever and dnt be scared
2006-07-29 15:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋