When you are emotionally ready to have sex...when you are ready to deal with getting pregnant or having an STD should that occur...when you are ready to get and use birth control/protection properly and have yearly pelvic exams and blood tests for STDs (including AIDS)...when you've met someone you desire to share your body with...
2006-07-29 14:11:13
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answered by . 7
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The problem with " The First Time " is while it seems like everything is building up for that moment that will always be remembered, That memory can be NOT what you will
ever consider as "cherished" for a lot of reasons.
The main reason is ,even though you become experienced in the art of love making , the guy aspect of it ,comes down to the fact that they are in the relation for one thing and once they get into your ----- half a dozen or more times, at that point he will start to advance on other girls because you are no longer a challenge to him
and he will act like he is bothered when you try to have chit chat with him. That's always the first sign 100% of the time. So I am telling you right now even though there is that awesome electrical chemistry, goosebumps,hart racing, pouring liquid emotional ties to this guy , when he has conquered the frontier enough times that will be the precise moment that you will get wind of his advancements on other girls.
Signed Douglas in far n. Dallas
2006-07-29 21:41:28
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answered by Douglas Merran 2
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It is differnet for guys and girls, but best result could be achieved if you do it with only your life partner and start to do it after you get married with him/her.
For girls, Girls usually start to develop their special girly body in the age of 14, but it takes about 6 years to become a girl completely. That means before 19 or 20 or so a girl is not enough matured physically. And if any girl have sex before she is 19 or 20 then she will have her those places injured and when she will be 24 or so she will start to feel that she can't enjoy it anymore and lose the most senses in her those places. I just told you this to help you to take decision if you are really ready. like that, if guys starts to use their those parts before they become mature then they wouldn't be able to perform the way they should have. But guys usually becomes matured in these cases faster then girls.
So, I'd say a both girl and guy should start these things after marriage and also, guys shouldn't get married before 17 or 18 or so and girls shouldn't get married before 19 or 20 or so. Also either you are married or not, keep in mind the topic of safe sex. Good luck.
2006-07-29 21:17:18
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answered by ? 5
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Actually the bible says there are two kinds of sin, one against the body = theft, murder, and one against YOUR OWN SOUL. so sexual relations outside of marriage are a sin against your own soul. Pretty heavy stuff when you think about it. Nobody Else's fault or sin, just you and your everlasting soul. VERY VERY few folks have regretted waiting, many wish they HAD been able to give their future spouse the gift of virginity.
2006-07-29 21:18:44
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answered by science_curious 2
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Wedding night. Because its romantic to keep yourself "clean" until you meet your special someone. Don't be impulsive nor be controlled by the heat of the moment. It takes real courage say NO and to do the right thing. Take care and God bless ^_^
2006-07-29 21:37:38
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answered by I'm Complicated 2
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When you have been with someone for a long time. After the age 16.
2006-07-29 21:10:00
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answered by ebertlove 3
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whenever you want to but i think the best time would be when you feel the time is right and when you know that you are totally in love and so is he.but probably when you are married or engaged or on your wedding night
2006-07-29 21:10:56
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answered by BrOkeN 1
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When your done with school or 16. But really when your in a confertable stage of your life where you feel like you are really ready. When you feel like your reasonable a nough.
2006-07-29 21:11:11
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answered by C-Low 2
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Night time.
2006-07-29 21:11:31
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answered by annastasia1955ca 6
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When it's best for you.
Beware, it's not all it's cracked up to be the first time.
2006-07-29 21:10:22
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answered by lala<3 4
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