How do u deal with little cousins who hate u and u have to spend 5 whole days with them?

Question

i have to spend 5 whole days with my little cuz every week but she hates me what should i do??

Answer 1

Get her to love you. Talk to your cousin. Tell her you want to be her friend. Tell her that you are going to love her even if you she doesn't love you in return. You are the bigger cousin. You have to set the example. You can't be petty just because she is petty. I have older cousins that used to treat me bad when I was little and you know what? As adults we are all very good friends and we look back and laugh at the old days. You can respond to your cousin with hatred and let things continue as they are or you can be the mature one and take steps to improve your relationship. You may be thinking to yourself "I really don't care." However, I sure hope not because that is the reason our world is in the condition it is in now, because no one cares. Think how the world would be if everyone cared. I want you to think about how your relationship with your little cousin can be if you took the time out to show her you care. I will be praying for you and your situation. Peace and God bless.

Answer 2

I would find a comon ground, if not talk to her, I would also recomend talking to her parent's on what she like's actor's music, book, ect...
the day before and do an online search regarding those area's it always work's for me knowing more about what they like then they do.
I keep it up with my step daughter knowing the cartoon's and music she likes and a good craft project never fail's ether like clay or paint out doors though you can bet if she doesnt really like you she will try to get paint on you. (possibly)
oh yeah and if she doesnt like you a good "pre arranged" water fight is a great way for a welcome like an easter egg hunt hid water balloons, and water guns alll around and watch the pent up frustartion turn into admeration as the water fight come's to hault.
four years now with step kid's i speak from experiance on when they don't like you you can always turn it around now i am the one they come to with all their questions and advise with the oldest being 10 and the youngest 6 they fought me tooth and nail i have the scar;s to prove it.
but a bit of time and patatience and alot of water balloon's has done the trick for me.
and key if she does get paint on you if you are painting get her back a mess quarrel with laughes is always better then a word war or a fist fight.

Answer 3

Bring a book and just ignore the little monster. Make sure that you spell out to everyone in no uncertain terms that you in no way intend under any circumstances to be responsible for what the little brat does or gets herself into, and you expect to be left alone to read. Tell them that you have a summer reading assignment for school to get caught up on and you must be left alone.

Answer 4

keep getting her into trouble over stupid stuff, well that's kind of too lowly. So, why not try to get to know the reason why, and solve this problem. Or, introduce her to cool pass times.

Answer 5

I feel for ya!! The best thing I can tell u to do is make the best of it. Ask her what she wants to do for a change and if she don't like that than i don't know what to tell ya.

Answer 6

depends on age difference really i would say be more mature than them or be quite till they bore themselves if they throw stuff at you than duck tape them in a closet premium gray works for my little sis go ahead try it out

Answer 7

you should try to bridge the chasm between the 2 of you by making the first move to be nice to her.

Answer 8

Bury them in the back yard

Answer 9

Send her down to the basement, lock the door so you dont have to deal with them. jk

Answer 10

have you asked why your cousin doen't seem to like you or maybe just ask your cousin and try to work out whatever it is.