I, personally, think that both have their rewards and drawbacks.
Being single has its rewards because you get to be single and free. You don't have to answer to anyone. And you don't have someone elses feelings to worry about. You can also learn things about yourself without having to worry about how they will fit or what role they will play in a relationship. The drawbacks being that you are alone, and you don't get the joy of knowing someone on that intimate level. (not talking about sex)
The rewards of being in a relationship are good also. You have someone to share love with and time. You have a second opinion and someone to put you in check when you need it. It's always nice to have someone you can laugh with and share things with. Someone to know on an intimate level. (And I don't mean sex.) But the drawbacks are that you have to now take into consideration someone else. You are not your owns anymore.
If I had to choose one, I don't know if I could. Because both can be equally fulfilling. That's why I just sit back and let God send my way the things I need. He knows better then me what to do with this life.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-29 14:00:42
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answered by PseudoQuasiX 3
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I think every woman should stand on her own 2 feet for a time - to know that she can and that she doesn't NEED a man to make it, but WANTS a man to make it better. Everyone should know what they are capable of alone, and in so doing makes the relationship better by being 2 people coming together. I like a relationship better -- but I'm not afraid of the unknown because I know I can handle it!
2006-07-29 20:56:48
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answered by ? 7
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Well being single has it's bright sides, and being in a relationship has it's bright sides, but for some ppl there's a down side. I really can't say. I like being in a relationship only when where both working at it. If I'm the only one putting work in the relationship. Then no. But other then that i do like being in a relationship. But then I like being sing because you have no limits. But that's just me.
2006-07-29 21:01:59
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answered by C-Low 2
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It depends, I myself like to be in a relationship and we're amking each other happy. I also like the idea of that when ur single u can feel free to do and go wherever u want without having to answer to anyone.
A really good or great relationship is something I've always longed for becasue to be with someone who ur happy with is a great and wonderful feeling.
2006-07-29 23:25:28
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answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6
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I like being in a relationship I'm tired of being alone all the time.
2006-07-29 21:03:19
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are in a relationship you want to be single. If you are single you want to be in a relationship. You like or want to be what you dont have.
Clint
2006-07-29 21:03:17
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answered by flesh4fanasie 1
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In a relationship. I love the fact that I am loved by someone other than a family member.
2006-07-29 20:58:15
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answered by pinkeydots 2
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I love being in a relation ship I have necer wanted to be single!I just feel safe with a bf!
2006-07-29 20:58:07
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answered by Beth S 1
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single is good but i like having a man about the same
2006-07-29 20:55:41
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answered by Anonymous
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I like to be in a relationship, too... I admit that life is so much more fun and enjoyable when it is shared with another.
2006-07-29 20:56:23
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answered by Mike S 7
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