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i am 13 years old and very confused. i need to know how to tell if i am a bisexual or a lez or straight i always thought that i was straight until i started looking at a girl diffrently. I look at girls boobs before i look at there frace. When i see a guy half naked i don't get turned on or anything.i have frenched a girl before and have kissed a guy and they both felt good. so am i bi or staright.. What am i> HELP!!!

2006-07-29 13:28:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Don't worry.....
You are 13 yrs old....i believe you are probably have a little worry about your body.....So you start to pay attention about the other girls' body.

I think you are all right!
Wait until you get older...
You are fine.

2006-07-29 13:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Unsent soul 5 · 2 0

Kissing someone doesn't determine sexuallity. Lips are lips no matter what gender. And to be quite honest MOST girls look at girls assets before their face. It's all part of a little thing I like to call INSECURITY. They are always comparing and criticizing. If you don't get turned on at the sight of a half naked guy then your parents are raising you right. You're 13 wtf do you need to know about sex. Ask this again when you're 18 or 25.

2006-07-29 13:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by zetser 3 · 0 0

You are normal...that's all...hormones do that to ya and there isn't anything you can do about it. If you got aroused watching two cattle getting making out in a field or two hamsters in a cage...doesn't mean you are into bestiality. Ever see dogs go around sniffing crotches?--they aren't all bi either! You are becoming an adult...which means you are gonna check out the competition and the quarry till the day you die.

2006-07-29 13:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweetie, don't worry...your hormones are changing and you're starting to learn more about people, and life, and being a teenager...all kinds of things will catch your attention...many heterosexual people (esp young women) will experiment with other girls or find them appealing early on...it's not at all uncommon but is no real sign of her being lesbian or bi or straight...that determination comes later...

Give it time...like who you like...it's okay...you'll figure out before too long where your actual attraction (to others) lies...

2006-07-29 13:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

youre too young to wonder things like that in my opinion. and esp worry about it, experimentation is something a lot of teens/college kids do, it wont turn you "gay" if youre not. and i believe you were born to be attracted to males. but just pray it over if you have any faith to hold to, and if not, wait it out for the truth. but in the mean time, your experimenting can be hurtful and harmful emotionally and spirituallly-so think twice and get out of any situation you dont want in, even after youve started and then realize youve changed your mind-its YOUR mind and no one can make it up for you. remember that.

2006-07-29 13:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by mello83 2 · 0 0

depends on the person wait till you get that like awesomely butterfly feeling weather its a guy or a girl then it might just spark something inside you letting u know how you actually feel about guys and girls OK?

2006-07-29 13:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by chicka!! 1 · 0 0

At your age things are really confusing. Do what your body and mind want to. LoOK where you want to. When it matters you will know what you are. And it wont matter either way. You are who you are and anyone who loves you will be ok with who you are. And god loves you the way you are...not as you aught to be. He loves us all; gay, straight, bi....whatever.

2006-07-29 13:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0 0

your only 13 ,give your self some time,you haven't started dating yet.what your doing with other girls id experimenting.its normal.when you start going out and 1.don't want guys to touch you,and you want females to touch you then you will get your answerer's.

2006-07-29 13:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0 0

*scratches head*

Im doing pretty good trying to figure out if a certian girl likes me.

So I don't think I'll be much help trying to figure out what preference you like..lol

2006-07-29 13:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by KaseyKahneFan 1 · 0 0

hello.
i am 14 yrs old.....and I don't really think that people in this age are bisexual or anything like that.
so don't worry if you are

2006-07-29 13:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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