I wrote this email to the girl I like asking her to the movies (were not even real friends, our parents know eachother), and at the last second I backed out, and when I was about to X out the email window, I pressed SEND! What do I do?!?!
2006-07-29 13:08:38 · 21 answers · asked by DiRtAlLtHeWaY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently you want to go....you're just nervous, and probably afraid she will say no....she'll answer back on e-mail..if the answer is Yes...Go Man Go....ALL EXPERIENCES IN LIFE, SET YOU UP FOR THE NEXT ONE...IF YOU TWO GO...YOU ARE LEARNING NEW SOCIAL SKILLS, and will be more at ease the next time and the next time....you know?
2006-07-29 13:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by dogsrulecatsqtime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good news. Something women have known for centuries. You can change your mind. Amazing, huh. So if she should respond to your invitation, you can either tell her you had something come up and just can't go, or you can go with the flow, enjoy the movie, and possibly even enjoy her. In other words, this situation doesn't have to be any kind of absolute kind of thing at all. You have options. Isn't that handy? You're not painted into a corner at all. If you decide you'd just rather not go with her for whatever reason you could ask her "Haven't you ever thought you wanted to do something, but realized later you were wrong, and really didn't, so you did something else - ?" Well, like that. If she is one-tenth as worth liking as you care for her already, she will smile and tell you it is no problem, that she understands completely, and maybe you two can get together some other time. That would tell you she is interested in you, wouldn't it? I rather like women (or anyone, for that matter) who aren't into putting me on the spot. Confrontational types of people turn me right off. So, as I see it, you stand to learn a great deal about this individual you say you like. You may well come to like her a whole lot more if she handles this situation as a really nice person would, and treats you as one, as well. See? It is not a test at all. You've probably got at least six different other things you'd rather be doing, Movies are funny, aren't they? Depending on which one you'd really like to see, sometime you just suddenly don't feel like doing it. Period. You don't even need a reason. You could tell her, "Well, I thought I wanted to, but I realized I actually didn't, and it doesn't have anything to do with you. How are you, by the way..?" She may be very moved that you wanted to ask her to a movie, you know, so be prepared to let her down gently if you still feel it was a mistake. In closing, I will tell you one thing, the funny thing is, how she handles this could easily determine whether you would like to do it or not. amazing, huh. Please remember this is an offer to go to a movie, and not a trip to the hospital for a C section or a nervous breakdown requiring the summoning of the entire family, an ambulance and people to help quiet your fluttering heart and to hold your hand. I am sending this to you with good energies, and the hope you will relax. Here is a big hug and a smile from Chris, in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old.)
2006-07-29 20:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by GORDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not such the cool dude now are ya? Relax, call her if you want to go & leave it the way it is if you don't. Its just a movie.
If you don't want to go, why is it? Are you afraid of her? It could be fun and a good movie. ITs just a movie, not major drama here.
2006-07-29 20:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude first chill,if u are not close to each other y did u ask her to the movies in the first place
but i think it might be good ,u will get to know each other better
dont freak out ok,it is just a movie
2006-07-29 20:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her if she accepts. Anything less will make you look like a social idiot. If she fails to accept or acknowledge the emails, remind yourself that you never wanted to ask her out.
2006-07-29 20:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But Send and the X are like so far from eachother!
Well, just hope for yourself, you have my best wishes!
2006-07-29 20:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Byebye Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til she replies,thn u can do 1 of 2 things a)if its a positive response n she wants 2 go out with u ...go 4 it and b) if she declines thn say "sorry i sent it to the rong person hope i havnt embaresd u or nething,sorry"so either way u come out smelling of roses,good luk
2006-07-29 20:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I think at this point your only option is to wait and see what she says! Maybe she'll accept and it'll turn out to be the best mistake you ever made! If she declines, at least you don't know her that well!
2006-07-29 20:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man, that has gotta suck. either u wait to see what happens, or u send another letter, saying it was suppose to go to someone else, but that would probably make her upset, so u should go with the first and just wait
2006-07-29 20:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not like you asked "Will you marry me?" or somethin like that i mean, its only the movies. so just take chances and if she said yeah sure then great and if she says nah thats alright then say ok cool. but its not the end of the world
2006-07-29 20:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋