i need help. too much sexual frustation. i need tips, cuz i cant get off by myself and im not a whore, so im not gonna go have sex w/ someone i dont love. HELP ME
2006-07-29 13:04:29 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a toy. They are available on many "non-trashy" websites. Or go to a good sex toy shop. Don't go to a porn shop, you sort of feel dirty after leaving there. Check out the websites I've included below. This is what I prefer and, sometimes depending on the partner, the toy is better!
2006-07-29 13:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa F 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Start by relaxing, good sex starts in your head so do what makes you feel good, light some candles, take a bath, look at your self in the mirror, read some erotica watch some porn just experiment with your hands, gentle touching and rubbing if you want try buying a vibrator and play with it. just experiment till you find what makes you feel good and sexy till you have orgasms or just gives you the sexual release that you need
2006-07-29 20:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by bluerapture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... usually in the shower after a shower or in bed a night....
just run your hand all over yourself.. explore yourself.. find your sensitive spots....
remove any trousers or pants as they get in the way.... shut you eyes and use ur strongest hand.. run your fingers gentle over yourself.. in you delicate area... fine the mose responsive it and rubb yourself there... slowly.. just slowly... usually with music helps... raise your lower back slightly... and gently rub your clit... rub gradually faster in the most responsive spot... and you just work from there.. find what you like.. also when inserting finger inside... bend the end of your finger towards your belly button and push so you trigger the g-spot also.. key thing is to just relax and not think about what it is you are doing...
just imagine you are an all feeling being and remember.. a lot of people do it... and it is very natural!
2006-07-29 20:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say there is nothing wrong with masturbation. My tip is not to go nuts and over excess in masturbation. You wont get sick, hurt, or get any disease of any kind. I just think that not doing it so much is for the better.
Other than that your ok.
2006-07-29 20:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by gao3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sarah...you have to experiment with yourself a bit...get to know you...it took me until i was almost 26 to figure out how to get myself off...but i finally figured out that while touching the "inside" was awesome...there was a whole new world on the "outside"...(meaning my clitoris)...for me...i have to hold the lips up kind of taught like...and then with the other hand...(just the first two fingers)...i stroke in an up and down motion until my feet start to go numb..,and my entire body is trembling violently...(good violent that is)...about 30 seconds of that and BAM!!!...eyes roll back in my head...and i leave the planet for a bit...then i just want a cig...ice water...and chocolate...lol... :)...they also have toys that stimulate your clitoris as well...if you are that frustrated...you should check out your local adult store...and make a friendly purchase...trust me...it will be worth it...sorry if i was too detailed...it's just that i wish that someone would have told me how before i was almost 26...coulda felt good LONG TIME AGO...good luck to you
2006-07-29 20:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go search the web with yahoo for masturbation tips for women and there is more than enough info out there. If you want IM me and I will help ;)
2006-07-29 20:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by roselinblades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just knowing the technique. I know how to get myself off and i have an orgasm at least once/twice a day.
2006-07-29 20:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't mean love. And love doesn't mean sex. Go find a man for the night. You won't regret it at all.
2006-07-29 20:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try using toys lotions, movies, or cyber sex while your masturbate. Not having causual sex is a good thing, to protect you from stds and unwanted children.
2006-07-29 20:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by jmndad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out these sites:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation
http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/mastf/mastf.htm
http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/masturbatewomen.htm
Good luck!
2006-07-29 20:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋