they always want sex after the first date!! am i chosing the wrong guys? is there a way to tell if they will be like this??
2006-07-29 12:44:26 · 21 answers · asked by libby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I can't read your question, I'm fixated on your picture.
2006-07-29 12:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dress like your pic all the time that might be part of the problem. Also if they stare at your *** and **** all the time and the topic of conversation is just how nice you look and physical stuff that is a pretty good indicator.
They might not even been the "wrong guys" they just might see you as a hot chick and not a person. I know I have been on dates with girls who I am only interested in physically. I act completely different on them then I do on a date with a potential girl friend. I mean I know before I go on a date whether it is just because I think she is hot or because it think she might be girl friend material. Though most of them are probably the wrong guys.
It is harder for better looking girls to find good guys because a lot of guys will just want them for there looks. The same is true for guys though. Good looking guys will get girls who just like them for there looks. It is a curse but it really isn't that bad. it can be fun sometimes;)
2006-07-30 16:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by thatoneguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they only want sex from you then yes, you are choosing the wrong guys. Most guys are going to try and go for the sex thing so you can't eliminate a guy on that basis. However and guy that is worth while will always respect you when you say no to sex and will still be interested in you as a person. Unfortunately the only way to find these guys is to date a bunch of guys and eliminate the majority who won't respect your choice and aren't interested in you.
2006-07-31 13:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys want sex all the time - it takes a smarter, more mature guy to realize that sex too early in a relationship can end the relationship quickly.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't necessarily interested in the relationship, they just want the sex. Try to find someone who wants the relationship. Make sure you don't send out signals indicating that you want to have sex, and that you want to have a relationship if the chemistry is there....
2006-07-29 19:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by merigold00 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you making it too easy for them to get what they want. I hope not. You must just make the choice yourself on how far they get and who it is who gets there Now I myself would enjoy a night out with you just to be with you but if the time was right, I would play on but I would just like to get to know you first and see what kind of a person you are and can we share a good time before we have one. There is more to sex than just getting it!! Well, at least that is the way I look at it.
2006-07-29 19:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the f*** old are you? When you look like you do, That's all guy will want. date the guys you find unattractive. Nerds,geeks and older guys (at least 10 years older). Those are the guys that will treat you like a lady instead of a sex toy. Unless you want them to once in a while.
2006-07-29 19:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz you look edible and like kobe tai
plus sex is the best way for males and female sto get along.
Trust me I wouldnt date you at all if you did not put out the FIRST NIGHT.
if your going to look that good, im getting some of that or you can date a white guy that will RESPECT you for your mind
LMATFO
get real
did I mention you look like Kobe Tai. That gets the blood flowing.
You ever see her take one, its a sight
2006-08-01 15:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you putting out the "put out" vibes? Even if you don't mean to be, perhaps that is what they are seeing, or feeling. My daughter has the same issues...when your cute, it's hard to get around that. She always complains about that and she is just a friendly person, they feel comfortable with her and so I guess they think she will be an easy target. She is not....I don't know what to tell you except, keep holding out....don't settle for less than you want....you will be rewarded with Mr. Right....there are alot of toads out there Cinderella....
2006-07-29 19:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by drpearce124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off YOUR PIC! Your barely dressed! This could be why! You have a very pretty face and striking features, but you should dress more classier and sophisticated cause the guy will respect you more!
2006-08-01 16:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by BlessedAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed?
You need to present and act in such a manner as you desire to be treated in.
Should you be dating people with singular interest, then you are in need of a change in environment. The style of your attire speaks volumes and your dates might be listening...
If you wish to "find" serious dates, you need to approach dating seriously.
2006-07-29 19:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think Its Because Of Your Appearance
2006-07-31 15:52:11 · answer #11 · answered by Thickness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋