2006-07-29 12:32:12 · 21 answers · asked by Jelly R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice is to not worry about labels, since there are many gradations in between those three. When you see someone you like and get those tingly feelings inside them, you'll know you are attracted to them. It's also perfectly natural to be mostly attracted to one or the other gender and still appreciate the beauty in the other.
2006-07-29 12:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Well I guess it all depends on who you feel the most comfortable around, intimately. Guys are alittle intimidating when it comes down to doing it, and they are so afraid of commitment. --lol Really It's all about being with the person that you feel like you can be yourself around.
With females you relate alittle more but think about it, imagine two you's while your on your monthly buddy-- and then decide if you really want to spend your life with another woman.
And if you're really unsure, then you should take a break from dating for a while- become comfortable with yourself then the right one will kind of come to you.
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2006-07-29 12:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sameris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell because you know how you feel inside and you know what attracts you to another person. If the thought of kissing another woman makes your insides warm, you may be bi- or gay. If you'd never consider kissing another woman, not even in a fantasy or a dream, you're probably straight. If you walk around turned on all the time, no matter what, you're probably bi-sexual. Your heart knows...listen to it.
2006-07-29 12:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Airmid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when i go past other girls, i don't think they are hot or something like that, while when i go by guys i like, i think they are. But i really dont know how i tell, its just something that i guess ive known for awhile that i am straight. But if you are bi or a lesbian then theres nothing wrong with that, no matter what ppl tell you
2006-07-29 12:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually "just know". I think most people question themselves on this subject, especially in the teen years. You might see an attractive same sex person and appreciate their beauty...doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, it might just be appreciation or admiration. Try reading this link, it's a start
http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Parade/9548/article_sexual_identity.html
You can google tons of sights that might help answer a lot of questions. Much luck :)
2006-07-29 12:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gay guy and u have something in your head called GRD witch means gay rad er,u can tell how u feel,but if u are not sure the only way to know is to try.
2006-07-29 12:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im straight and I can't stop thinking about guys and don't really think about girls in that way. You're the only one who can tell what your sexual preference is.
2006-07-29 13:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just know. I have a HUGE HUGE ATTRACTION TO MEN and I could NEVER EVER EVER visualize myself with another woman the thought of that makes me WANT TO PUKE!
2006-07-29 12:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you were you would just know it. if you are not then no big deal. just live life the way you want to don't worry what others think. i am not gay but i have friends that are, they say they always knew they were like that. good luck
2006-07-29 12:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight-man bi-both lesbian-woman Now which one do you like?
2006-07-29 12:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋