2006-07-29 12:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by lovemyturk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Help find them a job and not a minimum wage either. then hook em up with a share rental type of thing. They still need that guidence and dont know how to do it yet. Oh, nice 360. santee state park. Is that in san diego county?
2006-07-29 12:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you have moneys and you want to remodel your house, do it. Especially around kids' rooms. For example if your kid's room is downstair, you can have whole carpet replace, repaint the walls, add trims to corner of the wall, flooring, and ceiling, replace window, may even remodel couple rooms and stuff. The trick is to keep it drag on and going very slowly. Even better if you do it yourself :-) Think about this, how long do you think your kids could tolerate not having all their furnitures in bed rooms, not being able to use bathroom, not being able to sleep in their room occassionally, not having electricty work to run their products, can't put nails in wall, etc... This will drive them crazy especially if you keep talk about how you can't decide what to do and take weeks to make small decision. This will make it so unbearable that they will leave, maybe even in hurry.
Or you can simply tell them you're planning on connecting the bedrooms together to make it into a game room and if that happen they will have to share bedroom. They will NOT stay I promise. Especially if you add pool table and you or your husband bring friends in to play it in middle of night or while the kids are sleeping.
2006-07-29 12:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you making the accommodations too comfy for them to move out? If so, start charging rent, make them pay for groceries and help out on the bills, etc. There is no reason for them to hate you. They are adults and it is time they start acting like it. Good luck!
2006-07-29 12:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to grow a spine and then you tell them that it is time that they support themselves like adults instead of acting like little children sponging off of their parents. Of course, it may be too late if you are so worried that they'll hate you if don't allow them to continue to take advantage of you.
2006-07-29 12:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the ads out and look for a nice place together. try craigslist .org they can room with others in the same situation. Do they have work?do they have skills? and why don't they?
2006-07-29 12:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, you are old enough, get out, you have the be harsh. get moving buddy, you are stealing all the chips and taking up too much tv time. mow the grass, get a job, move yo junk out. cya later, peace.
2006-07-29 12:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get amorous with your spouse. That is usually traumatizing to offspring. lol I don't even live with my parents and when they start making eyes at each other, I'm gone. ;-0
2006-07-29 12:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you been doing all these years? Where is your plan? Didn't you help them set goals for themselves?
2006-07-29 12:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them down and ask if they would like to move and if they don't tell them nicely that you what them out.
2006-07-29 12:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you love them, but they are getting too old to live with you, remember it's not cool to live with mom and dad.
2006-07-29 13:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by kznight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋