hi i moved to new town about one month ago..i dont any bodyhere.. so i am so lonley.. i go to club( see my note above..girls used me).. so which is best place to find a date.. nice girl.. meet a girl..Does girl ever date they meet in bar??/
2006-07-29 12:10:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am adult..>25.. but have not dated any girl more then 5 years..lol,,it suck..i am short, that is the problem
2006-07-29 12:12:49 · update #1
Dude, suicide is never the answer. I was there in high school. I'm alive today by the grace of God. Check out the links below for crisis-hotline numbers, and please call them if you need to. You can also read a little bit about my own struggle. Drop me a line at chad@jesusfreak.com if you'd like to talk. I'll be praying for you.
2006-07-29 18:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Pastor Chad from JesusFreak.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullfrog is an a$$hole...a fuzking a$$hole. Don't listen to that pie[e of $hi+.
Don't worry about the women. Most of them are vain, shallow idiots that don't deserve the time of day. Most have no morals, no ethics and no scruples anyway. Most can't be trusted and just want your money.
Find some real friends. Seek out the Lord and live your life for Him. He will provide what you need. He and He alone knows what you need. It may be different than what you think you need, but follow Him. Taking your life will get you nowhere.
Dying for shallow women is a waste. Wait and find the one the Lord has selected for you. Once you do you will see, it was worth the wait and you'll see that no other will be able to compare.
2006-07-29 13:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do when you are in a new atmosphere is to go out and do all of the things you love to do.
What sport do you like? Go to a club and play it. You'll meet people there.
What is your hobby? Find some organization where you can participate with other people using that hobby.
Coworkers? Go out together for lunches and such.
Family in the area? Hang out with them when they do their thing every now and then.
Is there something you don't know how to do but have always wanted to learn? Take a class! You'll meet more people there.
Broaden your interests. Educate yourself.
Get out and go and do everything that town has to offer and you will be just fine! =)
2006-07-29 12:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer. Try to find someone nice at church or at a coffee shop. Clubs aren't good to go to alone. I don't know anyone where I am well, except one person and I sometimes want to give up too. But suicide is forever! Once you're dead, you can't come back to life and have another chance...it's alll over....
2006-07-29 12:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suicide is never the only way out! Go to a church talk up some friends, THEN hit the club with them so when you get there you'll have someone to hang with while trying to get a girl!
2006-07-29 12:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you is thinking about killing yourself. That is not the way out. Why don't you try and mingle with people. Try this for an example. Go to the club and be your self when you go. Don't try to hard. Just walk in there and look around and then if a young lady come up to you then introduce your self to her and then take it from there. Try that and then see how it work. But never give up.Be yourself and let things take it's course.
2006-07-29 12:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer215oneal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the way out. Don't even think of it. If you're feeling that depressed you should consider moving back to your old hometown.
There are other ways to meet girls who won't use you. Church, libraries, grocery store and even when you do your laundry. Try to develop some friendships with coworkers or fellow students first. They might be able to help introduce you to some nice girls to date.
2006-07-29 12:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't KILL urself over something as stupid as a girl! you can do much more stuff to occupy urself and ur time. pick up a new hobby, hang out with friends. and there are always phone chat lines and internet dating sites if you REALLY want to find someone asap. but i'm sure the right girl will come along soon, don't worry. just have more confidence, girls don't like guys that have low self-esteem and very little-no confidence, it's just unattractive. maybe instead of going out of your way to find a girl, you should wait for a girl to come to you. because trust me, you will find someone some day! :-)
2006-07-29 12:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is NOT a way out of anything. If you have problems meeting ladies then join a singles club where they take trips and do things together.
2006-07-29 12:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice at all times. I'm short too, but never had much problems.
Nice works real well. Never knowed anyone to get a date by suicide.
2006-07-29 12:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by James B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋