this 21 year old likes me and i have known him since i was like 2 and we have been best friends and he asked me out but i am 12 what should i do i love him back and everything but he is 9 years older than me?
2006-07-29 12:07:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isn't a molester and he isn't perverted and sex is out of the question and so are the cops
2006-07-29 12:11:59 · update #1
we have been friends forever so that is why he likes me so he isn't liking me just to have sex and stuff and no i am not too young you guys are just too old
2006-07-29 12:37:04 · update #2
Babe, dont listen to people who try to put you off. Only you can decide. If yu love him then theres no problem with you going out with him - doesnt matter what others think. Go with it - youre young, play the field.
PS: the sex shud be great!
2006-07-29 12:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Brummie Geeza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all its the hormones doing the talking now and the age limit is 18 not 21. u r too young for this guy he will use u and then breack ur heart. if he really likes u tell him wait atleast till u r 17. if he can wait then he likes u if not then he just want to have fun. its not the age differnce it the age u r at now. it would have been ok if he was 29 and u were 20. maturity comes with age trust me.
2006-07-29 12:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, age doesn't matter, Im 37 & my wife is 55 & we're very much in love & have been for 8 years now. The problem you have is that if & when you have sex if anyone informs the police he can be charged with carnal knowledge & paedophilia. If you love him you wont let him put himself in such a risky situation & you will wait 4 years. Because he will go to jail for paedophilia & there's a very likely chance he will be badly & permanently injured or killed in there for that crime. You wont regret waiting till 16 when you're older, believe me.
2006-07-29 16:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by bognogel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he's asking you out as a "friendly get together" kind of thing? cause thats just kinda creepy that he doesn't have friends his age to ask out on a "real" date. But yeah you are definitaly too young to go out with him, but a friendly date is fine. Ask him again if he means a nice friendly like lunch thing or a real real date. And if he did mean a real real date, tell your parents right away or tell an adult because its just not right to date a guy when your 12 and hes 21
2006-07-29 12:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG are you crazy or what. I hope your parents find out and move from this predator. He's just missing with your head girl. Don't listen to him he can like rape you or even worse harm you. By the way you are to young and this is just sick and disturbing you have got to be very stupid. You may think your mature, but your not. I hope this guy goes to jail. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice on not going out with this creep. I am very disappointed in you =-( If you love this guy as much as you say you do then go for it, but just don't do anything stupid and be very careful with this guy. I wish you the best to come (DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!).
P.S: Make the right choice........your not legal yet and if he loved you he would wait for you and understand you. Enjoy your teen years and date people who are in your age.Don't trust this guy at all!!! He's just lonely and confused and don't fall for his lies. If you want to talk and need advice then contact me and I will be glad to help you =-)
2006-07-30 19:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would work if you were 21 and he was 30 but you are only 12
i know people who are married one couple are 17 years apart and the other couple are 20 years apart
i just turned 12 this month and my bf is 13 but hes turning 14 in September
i think 9 years is alot and i wouldnt do it if i were you but if you really love go for it and i guess you do so go for it
2006-07-29 12:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you were of legal age (18) and he was 9 year solder I'd say okay. But NOT 21 and 12.
2006-07-29 12:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no he's way to old for you, i think you should find a guy who at the most is 2 years older than you, at least that is my mom's rules for me and my friends and we are only a year older than you so maybe you should listen to my mom's advice too, good luck
2006-07-29 12:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Babe =^.^= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,what the hell are you thinking...You're 12 and wanting to date a 21 year old man.If I was your mother,I would tell this guy to stay away from my daughter or he would see his *** in jail.I hope your mother knows what is going on before you end up pregnant.You have many years to wait before you even start thinking about dating and boyfriends.Why dont you worry about finishing school,then worrying about boys.Good Luck...
2006-07-29 12:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~Devilz~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if sex is out of the question, 12 and 21. NO! He IS a pervert. NO ADULT WOULD EVEN CONSIDER DATING A F*CKING 12 YEAR OLD UNLESS HE IS VERY VERY VERY LONLEY OR A PEDOPHILE!!!!!!!!!! End of subject. Your young and dumb, but when your old you'll realize he's a creep.
2006-07-29 12:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ibro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋