2006-07-29 11:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa, when I read this question it was like omg there's other people going through the same thing as me!Well all I can say is that if he cant come to your country go to his.You have to be of legal age though..I feel the same way you do...just waiting to meet him already! It may work out between you two..and I hope it does...but you have to keep in mind that he could be saying lots of nice things over the net but you don't know him in real life.I HAVE to think this way because it can be really dangerous to go see another person in another country all by yourself...and I know this...hope you know this too...Like I said before,I wish you luck and hope it works out...... always remember to meet at a public place at all times,you could never be too careful! :)
2006-07-31 05:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy© 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to spolit your Sunday mood, but I think maybe you can invite him over to your Country for a visit and get to know him better before making your next move. If he really love you, I believe he will take the effort to pay U a visit . If he start finding execuses, then I think U can forget about this relationship.
In my personal view, I dun really trust this type of relationship unless the other party is somebody I have know well. Otherwise, I dun try this type of relation.
2006-07-29 16:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i loved a guy on the net once or at least i thought i did he was in canada and we used to chat everyday all day long but then i had a chance to meet him and it was the starngest thing in my life he was just like his photos but at that moment i felt nothing towards him and i found out that before i met him i loved talking to him online i loved sharing things with someone else from another country and beleive me never get into a long distance relationship it never works
2006-07-29 12:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by lolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of these guys are not sincere and only seek you as a meal ticket. To many stories are out there of women who fell in love with a man from another country little by little they ask to borrow money once you loan them the money and ask for it back they will drop you in a heart beat and lose total interest.
2006-07-29 12:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that you should not let this get into ur head and leave urself vulnerable to con men who are so prevalent over the net. Go join church groups or activities circles.. u have no idea how easy it is to meet a better guy so much close r to u.
2006-07-29 14:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Xanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love was online and from another country. I was 15. He was 19. He fell in love with me too...he would have married me! But I met him and it after I met him I knew I didn't want to get serious about him. When I broke up with him, he said he never wanted to talk to me again...so we never talked again. All I'm saying girl, is be very carefuL!
2006-07-29 12:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the last 12 years... i have never heard of any net relationships working out... the only things i heard of are horror stories. One of my friends travelled to australia to be with this guy who she fell in love with on the net. The guy turned out to be nothing like he showed himself to be on the net... he screwed her the first day they met, beat her badly and left her to die on the streets. She got help and recovered... but she is still recovering after 9 years of the mental trauma she went through.
tried it 6 times... never worked out... im glad now after 7 years of my marriage that i got over it and got a life.
if this advice matters... you need someone who can be with you... near you... in person... in real... for all you know the person you are in love with is a girl having fun.
2006-07-29 12:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is going to pay for your trip and youre an adult you will only be talking. I fell for someone through emails five years ago and went through alot of h*ll. He is twelve hundred miles away. Long story. Im married to someone else now.
2006-07-29 12:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are never what they seem until you meet them in person no matter how much you know. how about you first start with visiting him or he can visit you. then go from there.
2006-07-29 12:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in person when you can. That's the only way you can be sure. Good luck.
2006-07-29 12:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋