ALSO, what if she kept touching your boyfriend?
2006-07-29 11:44:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was showing interest in her, I would say "you can have him".
2006-07-29 11:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Josie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, if your boyfriend can be 'stolen' he isn't worth having anyway. The concept of one person 'stealing' someone else applies ownership of that person and that doesn't happen, people don't come with pink slips and are not owned by anyone and therefore can not be stolen. He is perfectly capable of making choices and if he chooses her over you then you two weren't going anywhere anyway. What exactly do you plan to do? Lock him in the basement? If your bf was not interested in playing with this girl he would simply say back off I have a girlfriend and you don't have a prayer, since HE has CHOSEN not to do that he obviuosly isn't as devoted to your relationship as you are. Personally I wouldn't want to be with anyone who didn't want to be with me more than anything else...the way I see it that isn't doing me any favors, its just keeping me from finding some who thinks I am the best place to be!
2006-07-29 11:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This actually kinda happened to me.
Mind you, I didn't find this out till months later!!
I was working as a delivery driver for a pizza place, and one of the insider people was in management training with my husband. Once, at the end of the day, she propositioned him, "Hey, you want to go over to my house? Annie doesn't have to know- it could just be between you and me...."
Thankfully, my husband didn't take her up on the offer!!!
After training, she's back at my store, being all buddy-buddy with me... She was SOOOO lucky I didn't find out till after we'd moved out of state!...
If I were still in the dating scene and some other girl was all messing with my bf, I'd probably take him aside and ask him what's up with Sue- What is her deal? why can't she just leave you alone? then WATCH his response.... if he's like, "It's no big deal..." laughing like he likes the attention, ask him if he likes her... yeah- then dump his sorry a--. If he says "It's no big deal- you're tons hotter..."
"Why don't you tell her to quit?"
a) maybe plan something to burn her next time she's around...
b) ask him to tell her to back off...
b) I go to her, tell her to back off my man...
If it really came down to it, I'd get really in her face. I'd probably start with mild insults... "Y'know, you're just making yourself look like a two-bit wh*re when you hit on my boyfriend."
Then if she got nasty about it, "He is mine. If he leaves me, then he's fair game and you can go for it, but until then I don't want you to talk to him or contact him in any way. I don't want to see you even reaching in his direction. He does not want you, he does not even like you. If you'll notice, he's been dancing with ME, not you.... He's been taking ME out to dinner, not you. Don't make yourself look like a bigger fool than you already are."
If she kept stalking him, I'd encourage him to get a restraining order against her... then let the cops deal with it.
Yeah, I'm in touch with my inner B----, and she would be, too!
2006-07-29 12:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Take it as a compliment that she wants what you have, but he needs to know that she makes you uncomfortable and tell her to stop. It took me a long time to learn this, but eventually I learned that my man (now my husband) wouldn't cheat anyway, so if someone does something I find inappropriate to him (men are usually blind to that) I tell him.
Now on the other hand if he is wanting to go... let him, he wouldn't be worth it anyway and you would always wonder if he was cheating. Good luck!
2006-07-29 11:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my boyfriend to leave her alone or make him choose between her and me. I would ask my boyfriend, "do you still like me more than you like other girls?" If he says no, then I'll dump him.
2006-07-29 11:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Acta non verba'..... Punch the bit$%$es head in, and ask questions, later. On the whole, though, i'd be tempted to let her have your b/f, as he's happy to take her advances. Find someone you deserve. It'll do you good.
2006-07-29 12:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by flaming_dog_racing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in her face, and tell her how it is!! dont just sit there and mentally/physically beat yourself up. If your man is letter her touch him, U better tell him how that makes you feel
2006-07-29 11:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by J Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that she is too late and that he is mine; also that her tries are pathetic and to stay away from him unless she wants troubles. 8)
2006-07-29 12:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off ! stop touching my man go find your own man.
2006-07-29 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say to her," Don't make your life difficult, just walk away."
2006-07-29 11:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋