anymore, Help any suggetions. i feel like I will never find another guy like him and I could never leave the home and stay in here and do nothing 4-ever. Sounds pathatioc hun, but thats what love makes you do!!!!! I can't imagine a man chenges his mind one one week or so to the next?? It's either yes or no. black or white, now or ever.......Altough he was judgemetal, (alott) we still had lots a memories 2-gether, and hugs and kisses and laughs and I though we are becomming one for life? I guess not? Help! God have mercy!!
2006-07-29 11:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is probably because he doesn't want to be with someone who is an ignorant racist. You most certainly need Jesus in your life. Peace.
2006-07-29 13:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, I am going through the same thing. The guy I love, and had been dating for a year, decided we needed a break. Then two days later, he says he doesn't love me anymore! It's hard to imagine how that could possibly happen, when we love them so much. I know it hurts. Its been two weeks now, and I am doing a little better. Time really does help. He says he still has hope for us, but I cannot put my life on hold for him, when I deserved to be loved by someone who adores me, and so do you! If you need to talk, we could both try to support each other. My e-mail is Sphinx_2525us@yahoo.com
And don't hold back...cry as much as you need to. People tell me we need time to grieve...we have lost someone close to us.
2006-07-29 18:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by parachute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, welcome to the club. The good news is that sick, suicidal, the world is filled with pain, feeling WILL go away. The bad news is it won't go very quickly.
The only advice I can give (besides don't do anything stupid right now .e. drugs, alcohol, or kill yourself) is to remember this feeling and keep it with you for it will more than likely return in your later life. That being said try to keep the ideas of what you were attracted to in your ex and be more selective about the next one.
You can't change other people.
We have trouble enough changing ourselves.
2006-07-29 18:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mike W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this two weeks ago ...i cried for 4 days ...i was so sad and couldn't c any good thing in the whole life ...just as u do now ...
but think like i did......
u can't cry all ur life ....see the full half of the glass ..
of course u're gonna find another great person .. he isn't the last man in the world..
and especially if he isn't sad as u ...then he doesn't deserve to be sad becouse of him...
u r great and deserve much better ....
keep telling urself that u r good, beautiful,smart ....and believe that he is the one who lose here cuz he left u ...
just try to be cheerful , meet ur friends and talk in funny talks....
u will pass it..
i'll pray for u..
2006-07-29 18:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by oomx555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, it feels to me like I am going through the same thing, but it wil work out for me.
But as for you, I am sorry. I know how it feels. Try to go and do a hobby you like to do with some friends. It helps take the pain away, and hey, maybe you'll meet a guy you like better!
Good luck and sorry
2006-07-29 18:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all hit that low spot in life when we feel like we wont ever meet someone. after liking or loving someone and then nothing. but it will happen but we just never know when
2006-07-29 18:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋