I have known my boyfriend for 7 years, we dated 7 years ago, and got back together 8 and 1/2 months ago. We are doing well, things are going well. I haven't yet told him that I was molested as an adolescent, should I tell him and if so when?
2006-07-29 11:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by naturegirl1017 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from experience....if you plan on being with this guy you had better tell him sooner than later. He may feel like you were hiding it from him. Give him time to accept what has happened. Some times guys feel heartbroken they couldn't do anything to stop it....even if they weren't around. If he gets mad at you for not telling him yet or looks different at you, he's not worth it.
2006-07-29 11:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Paul C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the relationship is serious and you need to tell him then do so. If it may not last and all is not well-then don't. It's all up to you.
2006-07-29 11:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get near engagement or when you are engaged, no sooner. It is none of his business until you will be his.
2006-07-29 11:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to unless something bought the subject up. its yr past. not unless you feel the need to
2006-07-29 11:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him now.....its time i mean you should trust him if you've dated him for this long
2006-07-29 11:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by foamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is not affecting your relationship i wouldn't bring it up
2006-07-29 11:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋