Here goes. This guy that I know, he has been flirting with me non stop. I was not giving in at the time. Well I started to give in about 8 months ago. I think I scared him. What do I do, My own father says that I should contact him somehow to see what is really goin on, but he live 90 miles away. Should I take the trip? He has no phone.
2006-07-29 10:56:54 · 17 answers · asked by herpeche 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
e-mail?
2006-07-29 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bailey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all he wanted to do was flirt. He's not interested in anything else. Mayne he's just interested in the chase, and once you were interested, he was bored.
Don't even bother with him. What would you do with a guy who lives 90 miles away and has no phone? You couldn't have arelationship anyway. Besides, if a guy is truly into you, it is VERY hard to scare him off.
2006-07-29 18:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very far away. But you say you have scared him and the best way to fix this problem is to visit him. Letters and e-mails may not help. There is nothing better than a meeting face to face ;) Make this trip. It is worth!
2006-07-29 18:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take the trip if you feel it might go somewhere and you truly want it to go somewhere. It sounds like you do. Maybe this is the man of your dreams and just don't know it right now. If you take the trip and it doesn't work out at least you know either way then and don't have to wonder anymore
2006-07-29 18:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he not have an e-mail? If you're really feeling this gut i think that you should go visit IF you are already going that way say for a trip with a friend or just to have fun. if you go take a friend with you. 2bsafe.
2006-07-29 18:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by genn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt, if he truly was scared off for what ever reasons, IF he truly cares for you he will face is issues and come back to you. If you go down there he may even get for scared... I would really give a couple of weeks and see what he does..
2006-07-29 18:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kat (with wisdom under her hat) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never chase a man, let him come to you. What if you drive out there for nothing? 90 miles away? Not worth it.
2006-07-29 18:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by rollergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother taking the trip. When he comes back to flirt, then you flirt back. Otherwise, do something with your life.
2006-07-29 18:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times it's the challenge they're after; pnce the challenge is over the fun is over. Dump him and move on. If he comes back...decide if he's worth the game playing. If he doesn't, you're better off.
2006-07-29 18:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has no phone then he has no money and when a man has no money then i think you need to find some one else that could make you happy because you dont want to be with any one that doesnt have any money
2006-07-29 18:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail? Or scream really loud.
2006-07-29 18:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋