Every time I ask my boyfriend to do something with me he says I will be there(somethimes but not all the time)sometimes he will just not say anything and sometimes he just won't email me back!And I really like him and want to get to know him better!Cause I go to his church to!So I really need help someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<3
2006-07-29 10:18:34 · 16 answers · asked by Beth S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he is trying to give you a hint..........He isn't that into you and would rather not be bothered. He is more interested in hanging with his friends or maybe even another girl.
Just back off and let things happen slowly.
Start going out and hanging with your friends. Stop emailing him all the time and wait for him to email you, ask YOU out to go and do something.
No guy likes to be pressured. No guy likes for a girl to bug him to death. What your doing is pushing him further and further away from you. BACK OFF and give him some breathing space.
Let him come to you.
2006-07-29 10:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to own him. You girls (even church girls) seem to think you need to control the guy's life. Why do you want to rush things? He has a life too and you are not it (at least not yet). Why does that make you think he doesn't like you? Why don't you let him take the lead and ask you out, not the reverse. You know, many guys in church (not all) are taught that they are to be the leaders in a relationship. When you try to take that over you are bypassing God's plan. Take it easy. Things will work out.
2006-07-29 10:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing my boyfriend is the same like when I tell him that I'm going to go to his bmx races he says no and if I ask why he makes up some stupid excuse for me not to come i'm use to it but that doesn't mean that were not together anymore I just give him space you should too if you ask him too do somthing with you and he says no just call your girlfriends and plan a girls night out that way you give you and him some space cus if you keep asking him he might think that your smugling him and that could cause him to go in the wrong direction.
2006-07-29 10:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by ashley silva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel so sorry about what you feel right now but don't force yourself to him.he might not be the right person for you.sometimes it would be better if we will going to put some space also since a person would be able to find out the importance of something or somebody if it's not there...just give him some space...open communication would greatly help...talk to him about your feelings and your frustrations...if he doesn't want to talk to you, accept that fact!!! if we fall in love, we should always be ready to accept the facts and the consequences...it's just that in loving we get hurt and if we Get hurt of course we need to make sure that we learn from it and if we already learn about our experiences don't be afraid to love again...just be yourself!!! talk to him!!! accept what he will tell you ...acceptance is very hard to do but once you got it everything would be easier for you
2006-07-29 10:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by trendycurly16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not interested he's not and there isn't anything you can do about that, at least nothing that doesn't just hurt you in the long run. How about you quit pushing so hard and see if he comes to you? Maybe he just feels like you are too pushy and thats what he doesn't like about it. Boys like to feel like they are the ones who are pursuing you, not the other way around.
2006-07-29 10:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boy someone who is interested in the same things as u i know this sounds hard but u will have a happier life with some one who u know without a doubt likes u
2006-07-29 10:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either this guy is cheating on you or is busy somewhere else, find out what he is up to... is it his work that is keeping him busy or is it women. IF its work then be understanding coz men want to career before a dedicated relationship, and if its something else kick his **** for it...
2006-07-29 10:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by too_unconditional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***. He obviously has not interest or respect for you. And if your willing to put up with that kind of behavior now, your future is looking pretty bleak.
2006-07-29 10:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he was into you girl he wouldnt shut up or keep his hands off of u.
2006-07-29 10:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lillian Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even know him that well, then perhaps you should stick with being friends, while you get to know him.
2006-07-29 10:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋