My parents would not let me walk around the mall when all my friends were going to and i didnt have anything to do it was so Embarrassing.
2006-07-29 09:50:57 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I've been there before. My parents were very against me doing things like just walking around the mall. I think they felt that it was a waste of time, partly because it was not something that they could see themselves enjoying. They would rather I found something productive to do with my time, as well. It is sometimes hard for parents to see the point in doing something like just walking around the mall with your friends. It may be embarassing, but they're probably just thinking about what is best for you. The mall is fun for you, but it can be a scary place to parents. They are probably a bit worried that something could happen to you and your friends when you're unattended at the mall. All sorts of unsavory characters hang out there. AND they probably don't like such a broad explanation of what you're doing. Parents would like to know where their children are and what they're doing at all times because they love them and want to protect them, and a few hours just hanging out at the mall gives a kid a lot of leeway to do anything they want, out of their parent's reach. Trust me- when I say I've been there, I've been there.
2006-07-29 10:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you've done something to warrant their not trusting you. Or maybe the feel the mall is not safe for you, even in a group of your friend. In any case, be happy that they care enough about you to be concerned.
Some kids have parents who don't give a rat's behind what they do... and they are trouble. I know, I hung with those kids years ago.
2006-07-29 10:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue Scrapbooker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is retarted. I barely started being able to go to the mall by myself at 11. How old are you? I would be so embarrassed too? What excuse did you tell your friends or did you tell them the truth? Good Luck!
2006-07-29 09:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was that embarrasing? What were you going to do there besides "walk around"?
Maybe your parents arent as stupid as you make them out to be. I remember when I told my parents I was going to "walk the mall" , that wasnt what we was doing we was checking out our prey. My friend Diana spent most of her time preying on the boys getting what she wanted and she did alright she ended up with a bad rep and unwanted disease. I went but did not participate and made the decision I had better things to do. Youd be wise to find something else to occupy your time. Find something to do , like help mom clean the house or mow the yard. Next time they may let you go if they didnt think you was up to something. If you are Id reconsider who my friends are.
2006-07-29 10:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what Ashley said. Her "retarted " parents didn't wont her to go to the mall so she climbed out her window and went any way. She had such a good time that day. She met this great guy who had this neat van. Then he Kidnap her. Raped her repeatedly and then buried her alive. Such a good time at the mall, and to think her "retarted" parents didn't wont her to go...........
2006-07-29 10:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word is "retarded" and it's inappropriate to use it in this context and it's offensive to people with mental handicapped. Secondly, no, it is responsible parenting. Pedophiles, kidnappers and other people who are out to harm children notoriously hang around malls and other places young people frequent. It's hard to understand that now, but you will come to appreciate the rules your parents have enforced as you learn more about the world.
2006-07-29 09:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they have a valid reason why they would not let you walk around the mall. Stop being a follower and be a leader and not do what your friends are doing.
You will thank your parents one day.
2006-07-29 09:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have there reasons.
Your age and the reason you wanted to are factors. I am sure if it was something worth giving you permission they would have let you go. Ask them why they wouldn't let you go.
Be sure they are only looking out for your well being, they are doing there job.
2006-07-29 09:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are the same way and it dose not bother me. I'm 14 and they mont let me date not even when i'm 16. But that dosen't bother me eather thay just want to protect me. some girls don't have parents like and then they get pregnant or killed and stuff like that. So you should be happy you have parents that love you enough to do that.
2006-07-29 09:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by girlperson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sort of depends on a couple things. How old are you and have you done anything to make them not trust you? If you're 13 or older and haven't done anything untrustworthy than that is sort of weird. parents will be parents.
2006-07-29 09:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋