I'M 15 YRS OLD AND HE IS 17 YRS OLD I TOLD MY BOYFRIEND I WAS PREGNANT AND HE SAID WHAT!!!!!!!1IT AIN'T MINE I GOT A HISTORECIME WHEN I WAS 14 YRS OLD WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-07-29 09:18:13 · 18 answers · asked by arielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A man does not have hysterectomies that is for women....lol and it sounds like he had plenty to say and its to late to say shame on you, but now is the time to talk to your parents and to his parents and get help for you and your child.
2006-07-29 09:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? You should stop having sex. You're way too young and immature to be fooling around with some guy. If you DO insist upon having sex at your age, at least make the guy wear a condom, MY GOD! Is that too difficult for y'all to do?!
Also, there is a difference between a vasectomy (sterilization of a guy) and a hysterectomy (sterilization of a girl). I'm not sure you understand that... Did HE tell you he had a vasectomy or a hysterectomy? If he said the latter, he's an idiot, and you should really set your standards a teeny bit higher. Dio mio...
My God...America's youth going down the drain...
2006-07-29 09:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not get hysterectomies. They run out of things to say because "it couldn't happen to them- - they're invincible" BUT it happens every day. He is probably the father (assuming you haven't been REALLY stupid and had sex with more than one guy. If you have when the baby is born you will have to have a paternity test to prove the father's responsibility. It can be and might have to be court ordered. The father AND mother are financially responsible for the child. If you are not ready for that contact an adoption agency and give the baby up to a family that CAN care for him/her.
Then QUIT having sex until you are married.
YOU CAN'T HAVE A BABY WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE SEX!!
2006-07-29 09:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't understand what being pregnant and im gonna have a child means!!! ur too young and stupid, its not as simple as u think, being pregnant means ur stuck with the other person for the rest of ur life, ur gonna have a child, a little human being to look after and u will have to be responsible for that baby, u dont understand that and his unmanly and cowardly response show u again that ur not ready to have a child, give it up for adoption dont kill it its not its fault u were spreading ur LEGS
oh yea and by the way hysterectomy MEANS PARTIAL OR COMPLETE REMOVAL OF THE UTERUS ! okay hes a total idiot, he doesnt have a damn uterus what a freakin moron. and if he says he had a vasectomy he's obviously trying to get out of it. so yea slap him with child support papers make him be a part of that childs life if u decide to keep it and u'll know next time to keep ur legs closed u little ho
2006-07-29 09:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he had a hysterectomy, then he's not a boy.... a hysterectomy is the human form of spaying...(the FEMALE reproductive organs are removed...)
Now, hopefully you understand why so many people here post to NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL you'r MARRIED! It's not that we don't care, it's just your story is played out EVERY DAY. And it ALWAYS has a sad ending....
Teens, especially boys look at sex as the last great frontier... and don't give a happy kitty as long as they get theirs... and by your bf's reaction he wants to be responsible only for his own pleasure. tell your folks. have them tell HIS folks, get some kind of court ordered child support, you're gonna need it.
2006-07-29 09:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!! He is an idiot!!! They wont even perform that surgery on a minor...and I think you have to be like at least 25 or have a child before you can get that surgery done...so tell your boyfriend that you know he is lying and then tell him to fu*k off and dont talk to him anymore....if he doesnt want to take responsibility for what he did, you dont need him....when the baby is born slap him with child support papers and get as much money from him as possible....MAKE him pay!! Good Luck!
2006-07-29 09:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt he got a historectomy at 14 when the baby is born make ur bf take a paternaty test. and the reason guys have nothing to say to an underaged unmarried girl whos pregnant is becuase it shows that thay are easy and are a whore. witch a whore is a person haveing sex who is not married
2006-07-29 09:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys cant have historectomies lol (their boys), they cant even have vasectomys at 14, its way too young, hes trying to make you look stupid, Tell him youre not retarded you know he didnt have a VASECTOMY...... and that you are pregnant and it is his. And to prove it youre having a dna test done when the baby is born then when it proves that the baby is his, youre going to court and he is going to pay child support. Tell him if he doesnt like it he shouldnt have put his dange-dang in your twange-twang!!!!!! Good luck!!!! :)
2006-07-29 18:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Audra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably following the golden rule...if your dont have something nice to say...then dont say anything at all. When I hear of a 15 year old that is pregnant I dont have many nice things to say either.
2006-07-29 09:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by J. P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason y they run out of things to say is , the fact that they are thinking that a baby is going to require a lot of care and attention. and have one is a job in it self. he will come to his sense hopefully and take full ownership(if it is his, just being fair) of the child your carrying for him. don't beat up on him , he is thinking about his life and what have ing baby means to him, and also what it would mean for the both of you.
2006-07-29 09:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by SG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋