I feel inlove and we were already intemate when he said I love you. The day after he told me he was inlove with me he started ignoring me. Came back told me he got scared left again after a couple days. Tells me all these sweet things when we talk but then ignores me any other time. I love him and am having his child. I know his sis and friends dont like me and have told him all kinds of stuff like the baby isnt his I'm a lier and a cheat. I never once lied or cheated on him. I've never cheated in any relationship. I just dont understand if he doesnt want me then why he tells me how perfect I am, why he told me he loved me. He had already gotten what he wanted. Is he scared or does his sister who has only met me three or four times mean that much.
2006-07-29 09:13:44 · 15 answers · asked by lil sis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He maybe is scared plus his sis is buzzing sh!t in his ear.It probably was at first a "trying to get in your pants" but for the most part I think he is just scared ,what is he going to do?All the things that are running through your head also.So,get together talk,get closer by communicating.Start by saying baby what's up,I know your scared I am also,but we need to communicate......so lets talk.Everything is probably going so fast meet him half way.Goodluck!
2006-07-29 09:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by None 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life isn't always clear or easy. As confused and nervous as you are , he is also. You don't need outsiders now. You both need assurences. You can believe it more when he says he loves you just after sex. That's when all other emotions fail.You've about a three minute window to see what he does. Even if he just holds you, that speaks volumes.
When he tells you the things people say, tell him to look into your eyes and tell him , it's only him and that you love him. Don't get angry at his doubt,erase it.
Very few women are evr told that they are perfect.
Just be cordial to his sister, don't confide in her.
Good luck
2006-07-29 09:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young......if you are very young I am sorry to hear you are carrying a child fathered by this egotistical male. Depending on how long you have known him........most young males just want sex and don't know how to control these body functions. By all means, speak with your family members for help and assistance with this problem; don't get tied up with this guy.......he will only cause you problems and break your heart......AND.......you will be much older then!! With a child to support and care for!! (Suggestion: send a note to Dr. Phil..)
If, by chance you are an older female.........don't pay attention to those relatives of HIS concerning children, etc.........I divorced young because I married young (w/2 babies to care for.....it really is hard!). Married a divorce man (w/2 children) and his sisters kept telling him "why marry her - she has 2 children!"......when he, himself had 2 children!! Long story, short we married........we raised five (5) children together......his x-wife and I got along extremely well basically for the children's sake.
Today........children are adults out on their own and all four (yep..4!) husbands are deceased and x-wife and I are the best of friends and travel and have fun together.....WITHOUT THE MEN!!
Take care and learn to plan and enjoy your children and your life.
2006-07-29 09:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rodeored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart it is apparent that he got what he wanted. Men are men, and the age really doesn't matter. Sadly, they are pretty much all the same; aways after the ladies, to put it in a polite way. hope you have learned a hard lesson that you won't repeat. Chalk it up to experience, and I wish you all the best with your child. Sounds like you are going to have a hard time collecting child support, so please get some help.
2006-07-29 09:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure SHE develop into RAPED!!! Get that by your head! the biggest element you need to consider is their age distinction. And in aspect of reality no (supposedly) grown guy ought to EVER have something to do with a lady it really is 14 years previous. it is ill. and considering that he's the older of both, he took benefit of her. She would not recognize precisely what she's doing with suggestions from agreeing to have sex with him even if she did consent to it. once back she develop into merely 14!!! sure SHE develop into RAPED! the tale is plenty diverse once you've an 18 and a 17 12 months previous and they verify to have sex. there is somewhat little to no age distinction and both are better conscious of what they're doing... yet once you've a lady it really is 14 years previous and a guy it really is probable in his 20's seducing this harmless little lady... it really is rape and incorrect in such countless techniques. Take that to heart and in case you somewhat love her, you'll commence trusting her and delivers up questioning her. She already instructed you all you choose to carry close and in aspect of reality she develop into raped. era. end of tale. So how about you commence being a real guy now and be there for her and help her. do not be this variety of fellows that makes women persons hate and under no circumstances trust adult males for something of their lives. Do the right element. besides, she misplaced her innocence that day with suggestions from a predator and undesirable guy. You do do not forget that she will not be an identical because of this except she seeks counseling and has human beings round her that she will trust and who trust her? back, that is uncomplicated to do the right element. do merely it.
2016-11-26 22:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by albaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are,, but when you tell any man that you are having his baby he's gonna run. the younger and more immature the man,,is most likely going to still try anyway to get back in to hit it,, but the baby is a Man Chaser offer. Good luck with that.
2006-07-29 09:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by sparky_the_perv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps telling you how perfect you are to ensure that he doesn't upset you so that he can continue to get some action from you. If you're smart, you'll cut him off and see if he acts the same way. That is the best way to figure out what hes looking for because if hes already getting some, and you cut it out and he leaves, then you have your answer! :)
2006-07-29 09:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by laurenml11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his family are probably saying " if you go to her never break breath yo any of your family again" or he is really scared of his feelings about you. He love's you and then he does'nt. That's the way some lads are like
2006-07-29 09:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a real man he wouldnt act like that he would b right there by your side if he dont step up and b a father get him for every thing hes got
2006-07-29 09:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by redman5000_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
He is treating you like dirt and just wants to get into your pants.
2006-07-29 09:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋