I am to scared to live my house alone, but I am scared to be home alone as well. I am so afread of other poeple I cant get a job. What the heck is wrong with me?
2006-07-29 09:12:52 · 12 answers · asked by Sekkennight 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Firs off HI! I'm Regie, what your experiencing is unreasonable fear, that's a sign of a minor mental instability. YOUR NOT CRAZY this state is caused by an imbalance of the chemical configuration of your hormone system it's not of it's self life threatening, you need to get to the hospital. Please call someone you trust and have them take you, or call a local hot line I have faith in you, you can do this, do it for all your tomorrows and know GOD loves us all!!!
2006-07-29 09:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a name for this problem. It is called "Avoidant personality". And, it should be no surprise that Yahoo has a group on this problem, and there you will find lots of people with the same problem to a greater or lesser degree.
In my own observation (I was avoidant when I was young) avoidants are extremely high i.q. people. Most humans are somewhat negative and ornery when dealing with other people. Avoidants tend to hear the constant insults and put-downs, and believe them, so they decide they are really worthless. Then, they become afraid of others, who will only trash them some more.
There is a URL which offers a free manual on dealing with such emotional problems. In some cases, permanent cures in one day. It works sort of like acupuncture with no needles. www.emofree.com
I have ordered the $60 CD, but the manual itself is free. The problem is figuring how hard and how fast to tap. Read it for yourself.
If you have any funds, there are certified practitioners in various parts of the country. Standard therapy can cost tens of thousands of dollars with very low probability of results. EFT usually works very, very fast.
2006-07-29 09:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not there are evil forces that try to trap you and keep you from being productive and living your best life. My suggestion is prayer, getting prayer from a real believer in Christ and getting your home "spiritually" cleaned out.
If you can get out, find a church that will teach you empowerment. If you cannot, watch apostolicchrucrhofgod.net online to start getting the words you need to be a conquerer and not a victim.
Drop me a line if you need to.
2006-07-29 09:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by free2praise76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like social anxiety and agoraphobia. Seek help to talk about your issues before they get too bad. Its very common (i've had it before) Good luck
2006-07-29 09:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of your self in negative terms, try counseling for an appropriate answer.
2006-07-29 09:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Aptoslady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an apartment with ur friend or family member! then get a well ernin job
2006-07-29 09:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Rebel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sounds like you need to see a psychologist
2006-07-29 09:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try going to therapy
2006-07-29 09:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a lot...go to a shrink
2006-07-29 09:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by UnderGroundJesTer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunnno...u should get it checked!
2006-07-29 09:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Reality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋