what a girl wants from the guy she want to marry and spend her life?

Question

i want an honest answer

Answer 1

trust love and kindness are more important

Answer 2

Every girl wants something different I guess... but smart girls will want a guy who feels the same way they do about having children, who will discipline them the same way or be willing to work that out between them lovingly, and who will be a partner to her in every way if they do choose to become parents together.

She'll want someone who will be willing to communicate during good times and bad, stick it out when it's not great, be able to admit when he's wrong and be gentle about it when she's the one who's wrong.

She's looking for a man to be honest with her about everything, someone who will put effort into the relationship and never take her for granted, not from the honeymoon til one of them dies. Best is a man who isn't afraid of hard work, asking for directions, listening to his wife, or changing a diaper. A guy who wants to learn everything he doesn't already know and willing to admit the difference between the two.

Compatibility with this guy, while important, isn't everything because differences can be interesting and this way you each expand a bit as you grow together. He should have a streak of adventure, but still be able to give her the security of knowing that she is now, and always will be, his only one.

If the guy is able to put her first, she'll do the same for him, and if the guy has his priorities straight in life, she'll appreciate him all the more.

Marriage takes effort. Any guy who wants to get married has to know that when you say "I do" it's not time to relax. It's time to kick it up a notch... slowly building and tending the relationship so that by the time you're old together, neither of you could possibly say you should have chosen differently. Honest answer.

Answer 3

Most important is to first look for someone you could actually get along with for the rest of your life. Attraction is important, but looks fade, and personality is forever. You want someone who can make you smile, and someone who you can be yourself with. Marriage is a partnership, life doesn't end, it begins with two people working together towards common goals.

Answer 4

Fidelity
Integrity (character)
Attractiveness
Intelligence
Keeps himself fit
Is educated or has his own business (in other words, good income potential)
Is savvy with his money (he saves, not a lot of debt)
Great sex
Has ability to be a great father
Treats wife as a best friend

These are, by the way, in no specific order...and this is my own personal list.

Answer 5

Aloha - I think that most women all want the same thing - what they are sold when they are dating. Romance, thoughfullness, impromtu, being taken out - not having to do the where do you wanna go, I dunno where do you wanna go - hand holding, passionate kisses, flowers sometimes, just all around love and thoughfullness of each other. Relationships are 100% from each person - never keeping score, knowing when to give in.

Answer 6

What women want is not to be taken for granted. Always remain faithful. Keep the line of communication open.

Answer 7

Show her attention, love, commitment, and dont forget about the little things that mean the most!! You know what i mean~~

Answer 8

dont quite get the meaning of your question - but I will do my best to give a understandable answer.
She wants to be with and to bug that man until death do part them.

Answer 9

an assurance of commitment, love, loyalty, happiness, and good times. a good way to assure her of this is to sincerely tell her and show her over a long period of time.

Answer 10

love, attention, affection, emotional support, communication, honesty, time, commitment and his heart in return for mine.
that pretty much covers all the bases for me anywayz.