2006-07-29 07:39:35 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he does, hes a very sad basterd. You want someone to love you for who your are - not what you can do in bed! get a grip
2006-07-29 07:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no!!!!!! Obviously depending on the situation and whether he is your boyfriend and how long you have been together, if he is your boyfriend and you have been together a while and you trust him and you're both ready to move onto the next step in the relationship then he likely will like you better, but if it's just a guy you like and have been seeing a bit then no no no! It has happened to me in the past and trust me most of the time he will lose interest once you sleep with him.
2006-07-29 08:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Soso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a real question here!
The real answer is [and every woman should take note]:-
sex does not make or break relationships.
What sex does is to "amplify" the feelings of the persons concerned. If he loves you then he will love you more. If he doesn't then sleeping with him will turn his ambivalence into subconscious contempt, and he will use you, cheat on you and eventually dump you.
Men subconsciously know this - and they will lie to you in order to sleep with you.
Work out whether he is lying to you or not.
Trust your instincts.
Trust me as well. I'm a man. Old enough to be your father (probably) and one that has analysed this problem from just about every angle there is.
2006-07-29 07:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ian H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it depends on the person and how far into the relationship you are. Either way- do not be pressured by anyone and only do it if you feel comfortable.
I know a friend who was very shy and he was dating this french girl and a couple days into the relationship, she was the one wanting to sleep with him. He wasn't ready and she took his refusal as a personal rejection even though he was crazy about her. True Story, admittedly- that is rare but you must judge the situation you are in honestly.
2006-07-29 07:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by flexin4uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question there is something wrong in your relationship.
Do not. Do not sleep with anyone to create rapport or intimacy. That should have already been established.
I suspect you are a teenager. Hopefully he will be one too. Unless he is a god of love making, the chances are that he will be pretty hopeless. He will probably like you less as a result of his own perceived failings.
To summarise. No
2006-07-29 07:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Chriatian IV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I thought growing up but at age 27 I think that life has taught me that No he will not like you any better. Peer preasure into having sex is the worse especially when you are not ready to deal with the emotions and consequences of having sex. Besides sex is not all that's its cracked up to be because many people don't now how to make it pleasuable. I still haven't found someone with whom I can enjoy myself with. Don't rush into it if you can have some disipline over you physical needs.
2006-07-29 08:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by favoritecolorsblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep together he will surely like " yours", in fact he will want to sleep with you all the more and then leave you when it gets bigger
2006-07-29 07:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him just to make him like you more that's not how it works darlin'.
Only sleep with him when YOU want and feel comfortable enough with him and you trust him as well.
Thats the trick,because if you don't and sleep with him anyway you will feel so cheap and easy afterwards
2006-07-29 09:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by drexl100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex doesn't make someone like you more - if they really like you they really like you, and if they don't, then they don't. Please don't sleep with someone just for that reason, most likely you'll only end up feeling hurt.
If you want to have sex in a loving relationship then look for someone who thinks you're wonderful whether you sleep with them or not.
2006-07-29 07:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want 2 sleep wiv him 4 the right reasons firstly? don't jus do it 2 impress ur guy, it shouldn't make a difference if ya sleep wiv him or not, if he likes u already then he will wait, and if he can't wait til ya ready then 4get him he aint worth it! gud luck hun
2006-07-30 02:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by charlotte b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My immediate reaction is NO,
thats coming from a bloke obviously ...
But ...
Sex in a steady, trusting, honest, mature and close
relationship can indeed deepen the bond between
you, so it will depend on the state of your relationship
and both of your levels of emotional maturity...
2006-07-29 07:50:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋