well to start of im in love with my ex..we still love each other and hoping to work things out..the problem is that shes different..she has alot of illnesses..like shes bi-polar,takes pills for depression,to stay awake,to go to sleep,psychoprenic..dont know how to spell that..moody,temper issues,shes been thru alot growing up and well the way she is bothers me cuz shes to laid back...as she says..shes very loyal,and honest..i been with her for two years.dont know if i could last anymore...our sex life is not so great..we dont have sex much..we love each other ,i know if she could change she would..to anyone with experience..will she ever get any better or get worst????we do have a kid together..
2006-07-29 07:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by jerry v 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
im amazed that i ahve been with her this long..she can really get me to the point of no return,but im not that way..i been good to her..
2006-07-29 07:26:35 · update #1
My hubby has the psychogenic. We also don't have much sex. Because of the meds they are on it makes them lose their sex drive. I also sometimes feel like I could leave ,and never come back. But my hubby is to up tight.
I have been with him for 11 years.,and I feel he has got worse.
Now that does not mean she will.But you have to really love her to stay .If not then I say you should leave while you still have your head on strait.
2006-07-29 07:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mary M 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I hate to tell you, but she will get worse as she gets older, especially the bipolar thing. With all the issues, you will have to take care of her all of her life.The pills are what is making her not want to have sex.If she is this way, she need not have anymore kids. Chances are that your kid will grow up seeing her mother this way and may be this way too, or end up being the parent. I suggest getting some Christian counseling. Find a Church and start going. Both of you will feel better. Good Luck!
2006-07-29 14:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by msflightatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well man well. if you love her you will take her for who she is. yes she should work on some thing but you should love her for who she is. And if you want this that bad the only thing that i no how to do is pray, Pray for her to get better and pray for you two to work on your relationship. just take work. Well if you need to talk I'm here for you just email me man i would love to help you and i am pray for you. but with god there which he is anything can happen and it will work out. One more thing the same go's with her she should love you for who you are to. and sex there more to a relationship then just sex man. trust me girl's there the best and they should have the best. God bless. hi_c_boy@yahoo.com
2006-07-29 14:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a support group of some kind. I wish I could be more help. Check with your local health department and explain the situation and, hopefully, they'll be able to hook you up with what you need. You shouldn't have to deal with this on your own.
2006-07-29 14:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dutch58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who has to decide, and live with it afterwards. But short of a miracle, I foresee misery for you at least if you don't get some distance between you and the lady.
2006-07-29 14:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will have good days and bad, regardless of the meds. she will have to be seen be a shrink all her life to deal with this . have your kid closly watch by the same dr. cause he/or she can develope this too. if you truly love her go with her to the dr. give her time and hope for the better.
2006-07-29 14:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its true love, it would keep you goin... and if she really means everthing to you, life would be more about her and taking care of her...unless you have various other things to distract you all the time
2006-07-29 14:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her like a bad habbit
2006-07-29 14:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need professional help........for your childs sake.
2006-07-29 14:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by latinaangela2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋