I was involved with a guy i went to school with for the last 4 years at first we were just fooling around then i developed real feelings for him and i told him how i felt about him. It took him awhile but he eventually admitted he felt the same i was happy of course. He tells me he loves me and he wants to be together then i do not hear from him again. So i called him to see was he alive sure enough he was and i thought that was a cruel thing he did. Then we see each other again and he says the same thing then he diappears on me again that was a year ago i did not call him anymore. because i can't take the merry go round anymore but i think about him all the time i just don't want to contact him and set myself up for another ride by the way he has not bothered to call me either what should i do or how can i move on? I am 32 no children and single any advice would help
2006-07-29 07:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the answer couldn't be easier,my friend...he doesn't deserve you..you deserve better than that,my friend....seems like the guy has took you for granted.
Turn the page..and go on!
2006-07-29 07:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sheefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The merry go round stops today! Don't waste another breath on that man, because you are proably overlooking Mr. Right. Spend all that time and energy on yourself. He doesn't know what he wants, and he may never know....so don't let your heart ache for something that proably won't ever be....Call up some friends, say it's Saturday night, and I feel like having a night on the town....get your hair done, go get you a killer outfit, and go have some fun. I am not saying it's going to be easy, because you have some deep feelings for this man, but you can do this....Let him stay AWOL! Find yourself that man that worries if you don't call! He's out there looking for you, so quit staying home, and just maybe he's got a hair cut, bought some nice new jeans, called some friends is out on the town too! Hope so.....God bless you all......
2006-07-29 14:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya gotta let him go.
There is probably nothing wrong with you. My guess is that he can hear your bio-clock ticking. I only say that because in your last sentence you made a point to mention your age, status, and no children.
Do go to desperation. Think about this, you just lost a couple of years on this cat. Move on. Someone will appreciate all you have to offer.
2006-07-29 14:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just tells you he loves you to get what he wants and then he is gone. Look at the signs and go on and find someone else who will stay with you and love you for who you are.
By the way, is he married?
2006-07-29 14:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by a friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you should just move on. The way he is treating you, he is just not that into you. He's just letting you hang there as a potential while he is most probably going around meeting new girls.
He is just not worth it. If you continue to hang on to him, you'll miss out on better things and a better man out there for you.
2006-07-29 14:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly as you wrote. Tell him it's time that you no longer have any contact with him. You need to find someone who loves you all the time, not just every year or so.
2006-07-29 14:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find some one else,I'm shore you can do better or was he you first true love,if he cared he would of stayed, you may of been just to easy he may be looking for the right one to marry
2006-07-29 14:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its worth it find somebody else that r so many ppl out there screw him
2006-07-29 14:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by sweetmj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love u!
2006-07-29 14:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it 2 god
2006-07-29 14:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋