plz advise on how to improve my life?
2006-07-29 07:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by nitin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal to be single at that age and i think its normal to be a virgin at that age i think girls will like u better because its cute when an older man is a virgin because that means there waiting for the right one and the reason your single is because u havent found a girl that your intrested in just go out to more clubs or something like that and maybe u will find a girlfriend and maybe u will lose ur virginity just dont lose it to anyone lose it the person that u love and care about its better to lose it to someone you love and care about then to lose it to someone that u really dont love and care about so good luck finding a girlfriend and its ur decision when to lose ur virginity not anyone elses so u do it when ur ready and you will have a girlfriend when u want a girlfriend and when ur ready
2006-07-29 07:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really common to come across a male who is still a virgin at 28. However I don't think it's a bad thing. Maybe you have high morals and just haven't found anyone that you feel you want to give yourself to. Someday you will find her and it will very special for you both.
If you're having a hard time meeting people then my suggestion to you is to get out and do things that you normally don't do. Think about it... if you just go out and do the same things as always, then you'll just meet the same people. Broaden your horizons and meet some new and exciting people.
Good luck.
2006-07-29 07:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't characterize you as "normal", but that's not to say there's anything wrong with you. Most people lose their virginity by 28, but some people are late bloomers, and that's fine.
If it bothers you, make more of an effort. Go ask out some girls. I keep repeating this, and it's true....95% of the girls you ask out will be flattered and say yes. Be proud of yourself, be confident, and go get what you want from life. If you're not ready, then by all means don't force yourself. If you're ready, the world is yours to take what you want from it. Don't be afraid.
By the way, once you have lost your virginity, you're going to find it MUCH more difficult to go prolonged periods without sex. So, if you're going to go get some, be aware that there's no turning back.
2006-07-29 07:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you feel like your life needs improvement or is this need of change due to what your friends say?
There is nothing wrong with you, maybe u never had a gf bcos u never found a need for one maybe u never had sex bcos u never desired to encounter that intimate feeling.
When the right time comes you will feel the urge to get a gf and u will desire to feel her intimately. Ur hormones are probably very very late. Or maybe u need to see a psychologist, could be a childhood trauma
2006-07-29 07:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definately normal.. all you lack is self confidence. Remaining a virgin is a personal choice, so its no big deal. Just start doing things YOU love and enjoy life.. be proud of who you are :)
2006-07-29 07:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you're normal. It's not like being a virgin is a bad thing- and you'll have a GF when you're ready. Get out and do stuff.
2006-07-29 07:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kari M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No personally think that you are normal.....some other people (like other girls) however might think differently.
I think that you just need to go hang out with some friends like every other friday night....you can meet girls then. Just be normal around everyone and then girls will notice you for your personality!
2006-07-29 07:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cisco_2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your completely normal, because people out there might be 35 and that's not that normal though, but me reading your other questions, you're normal, life will come to you, just wait and be patient and it will happen, enjoy it while you still can, and while you're still young.
2006-07-29 09:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK in India....but for good health keep masturbating and don't let die the romance in u.
2006-07-29 07:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do one thing..
go to near by sea
measure its depth
make sure it is deep
JUMP
2006-07-29 07:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Prakash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋