me & this guy met last summer & he started to like me, i felt kinda weird bout it cuz dats juz how i am wen i dont really kno a guy. we didnt see eachother til school started. i began to start likin em alot. so we would talk on the fone a few times. my friends told me he likes me but i wasnt too sure of it. i started to like em more & we would always hug eachother in the halls & stuff. he ended up gettin a gf & wen the school year wus jus bout over he wrote in my yearbook & gave me his # i called em & we talked & had good convos. he told me dat he useta really like me alot but didnt think i liked em, & he didnt make a move cuz he wus 4 years older than me & didnt want me or em to get in trouble. he also told me dat he still does like me. but he still has a gf tho. hes really the 'good guy' type. we talk on the fone a few times a week & his gf knos it but she dont care he also told his gf he thinks bout me & he talks to her & his co-workers bout me & asks his boys if they seen me around
2006-07-29 07:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason ive been using alot of slang is because i didnt have enough room to type all that so i had to take some words out and also make some smaller. im also 15 for those of u talkin about my age and stuff
2006-07-29 07:29:39 · update #1
and for those of u talkin bout me not being mature because im a teenager dont mean anything. not all teenagers are immature, and i know alot of older people who are immature ok?
2006-07-29 07:33:39 · update #2
Well as you said he has a girlfriend now. The only thing you can do right now is continue to be friends with him. Don't put him in a position where he thinks he has to choose between you and the girl. If things don't work out with them then you might have a chance but in the mean time keep your options open.
2006-07-29 07:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I am getting from this, is that this guy sounds fairly decent; accept for the fact he has a girlfriend. Blossuming player,perhaps?
If he is not available now, ask him out if he breaks up with this girl. Wait, see where it goes! Take your time, no need to rush into anything! Keep us posted! Again though if he is looking to mess around, how would you like it if you were the girl he was dating and he was talking with some one else? Cheesy! If I was the girl he was dating, I would get pay back! And if she finds out she might too! Besides the fact he is low why? Aren't there any other guys were you live? I think you should get
"a life", a real life with a real boyfriend of your very own!
2006-07-29 14:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use English next time.
Its hard to translate all of this Junior High School babble.
Ok, here is my advice.
You are not more than what...................15?
Which means that NOTHING you are doing right now really matters. You don't have the pysical mental or emotional maturity yet. I know you think you do, as do all teens in your age group....but you do not.
So. It doesn't matter. Teenage girls have the attention span of a flea.
Teenage boys? Maybe an ant.
This time next month you probably will be pining over another "problem".
So don't worry about it. If you have a friend or two, a parent who loves you and whatever else (cat, dog, fish, brother-sis), just be good to them and enjoy your summer.
Go to disneyland, magic mountain, or whatever is in your area. Smile at other boys and be cool.
Thats it.
And also, keep growing and making it happen.
2006-07-29 14:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Keep being his friend. Don't try to mess anything up with his current g/f either, it won't last forever anyway and thats not being a friend. In time, you will be a little older and maybe when the time is right the two of you will get together. Just be a good friend for now.
2006-07-29 14:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by woman38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is a "good guy" then he wont go any further with you while he has a girlfriend. It is very open-minded of his girlfriend to let the two of you chat all the time. I would not be so comfortable with it. I suggest that you keep it just friends until they break up.
2006-07-29 14:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off please try to refrain from cuz, dats, kno and any other slang you can come up with, it's not as cool as you think.
The guy has a girlfriend. Leave it alone. At most you will be a part time toy for him. Is that what you want?
2006-07-29 14:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by †slayer† 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is with a girl. He shouldn't be starting something with u, unless he has ended it with her. I have this feeling he's just playing u. My advice is to stay away from him, at least as long as he has a girlfriend. If he wants u, he should show that by ending it with her.
2006-07-29 14:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Dont play this game with him. Someone is going to get hurt it will probably be you!
May you make the right decision.
2006-07-29 14:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u guys like each other this much, why does he still have a gf ?
2006-07-29 14:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this should be in the "teen" section, as it sounds to me like you have a lot of growing up to do, not to mention spelling and grammar!
2006-07-29 14:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋