He said his friends and him went to hooters till 1am then stayed in a hotel room and plan to go bar hopping later tonight. He is in a seriuo relationship with me but is not acting like it.
2006-07-29 07:03:53 · 28 answers · asked by loviebunnie2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh for christ sakes chill out. your relationship will definitely be in trouble if you start all this jealousy lark. he may be in a relationship with you but if you dont trust him to have a good time with his mates your relationship will be falling around your ears in no time. just because you have a relationship , doesn't mean you cannot be your own person with your own hobbies and interests and friends.
i'm married and i go galivanting now and again with my mates. if hubby said anything he would be in schtuck so calm down :(
2006-07-29 07:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need "guy time". Why do you have a problem with him staying in a hotel room with his single friends?? if they werent single would you be okay with it?? I think you need to start trusting your man and let him have time with his friends instead of sitting at home freaking ok.. dont stress yourself over this... I have stayed in hotel rooms with my single friends, and went bar hopping.. doesnt mean that i cheated on my man.. So stop stressing go out and do something with your friends and all will be good!
2006-07-29 07:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where trust becomes an important issue. He obviously wants his friends and his girlfriend both, very understandable. Talk to him and explain how you feel but be understanding about it. He may not be doing anything wrong. You both have to come to terms with what you want from the other and agree. Don't give up or think he's doing something wrong just because his friends are single.
2006-07-29 07:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by tony31569jp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just going out with the guys...don't give him a hard time. Like you said, he's in a committed relationship...trust him!
2006-07-29 07:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it all guy friends? what can i say guys enjoy going to bars and getting drunk off their asses. maybe just ask him to call in just to let you know things are ok coz you know some guys like to get into fights when they are drunk. but hes prob just having a fun night out with the guys, but if it was me i would probably be alittle skeptical as well thats why i would ask from him to check in
2006-07-29 07:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by mew69_77740 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are any of his friends female? If so, then yes it is inappropriate, if not, then there is nothing wrong and you need to quit being so suspicious. You are killing your relationship by not trusting him.
Honey, you need to allow him to have some personal time and space or you are going to smother your relationship.
2006-07-29 07:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Plain_Common_Sense 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he doesnt do nething that would make his partner upset its fine. guys will be guys so bar hopping and hooters is ok as long as he realizes he does have a gf and he cant flirt or stuff.
2006-07-29 07:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by rjekqlw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is not a constant thing and he is not out with some one else, I would not worry about it. He just wants to have a good time w/his friends.
2006-07-29 07:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question to answer is: is he acting like a single guy looking for a single gal? Is he acting like a guy with his friends. Guys act like guys, but they don't have to act like guys looking for gals.
2006-07-29 07:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as he's only looking and not touching, you should be fine. Just because he's in a relationship, doesn't mean his life should end.
2006-07-29 07:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋