ok, i dont want to bother any one, but look i have a gf, and well i was in the beggining all sweet and cursi, she loved that, but some people told me that i better not be to intense becasue she could get bored, so i stoped no completely, but a little bit, so she got dissapointed of me, then we couldnt talk for like a complete week, so now that she is back, she tells me that she doenst want to breackup with me, and that she still loves me, but she does not know what is going on, she wants that everything comes back to normal, but she does not want this that is happening to her again...and i ahve a lready told her, that she owns my heart, andevery thing, but i dont even know what the question is.
2006-07-29 06:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're letting her call the shots, and you've pledged your heart to her. You're doomed to fail...sad but true. If you start doing EVERYTHING she wants you to do in order to keep her love, you'll lose it. It's retarded, I know, but it's a fact of life.
2006-07-29 06:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would say the only thing you did wrong was listen to someone else tell you how to handle your relationship. Go with what you know and treat her the way you want to. Not what someone else said. everything was good until you took someones advice. Tell her what you did and why. And tell the adviser to not advise. You do what feels good and I believe she will accept you for that. I never get bored when a woman gets intense with me in any way. That just shows she wants the most out of our relationship.
2006-07-29 13:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You received some very bad advice the first time...and went against what you do naturally. She was into you and your affection of her...and then with no explanation, you suddenly withdrew it. It would confuse me, too. She probably wondered if she did something to offend you. Always go with your gut instincts. This is your relationship...and what takes place in it is up to you.
2006-07-29 13:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship will have its problem, but yours seemms simple... she really wants all that attention and if you're willing to give it to her, then do.. Don't listen to the people who told you to stop... if things were fine you should have just left it alone.
2006-07-29 13:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen..this is what happens when you listen to your friends...that is all i got out of your letter..you listened to your friends and messed up a good relationship....try to make it up to her..
2006-07-29 13:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋