me and my ex broke up like 3 months ago. i still really like him and he knows it too and doesn't say anything. we still talk and joke around and stuff...he also tells me that i can find alot better guys than him.. His freinds been tellin me that how he still got feelings for me and if i date someone else he would get sad. They also think he is stupid and dumb to leave a girl like me. I was the one who broke up with him and wanted to get back together and he didnt wanna. i don't know what to do and cant understand what's going on in his mind.
2006-07-29 06:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i didn't break up with him for no reason..it was his faultt...one of his freinds told me how he made out with some next girl..
2006-07-29 06:37:31 · update #1
If your boyfriend says you can get better than him, he is telling you to move on with your life and that he is not really interested and please if you get a new boyfriend he will get sad, what a whole lot of hog wash, he is enjoying his life and just keeping you there incase things dont work out and he has someone to come back to .... smell the roses and move on
2006-07-29 06:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you broke his heart and don't want to get hurt again. Some guys actually have feelings. You stopped the relationship for a reason and I suggest you remember that reason and move on.
2006-07-29 13:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by tlcnc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on girl. He's playing hard to get and probably enjoys the fact that you still like him and aren't dating anyone else. Open yourself up to some new friendships and new guys. If he gets sad then so be it. He had his chance.
2006-07-29 13:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart guy. If a woman breaks up with me, I NEVER go back. I'll go back if I do the breaking up, but never vice versa. A guy who goes back to a woman who dumped him is weak, insecure and pathetic. You blew it sister, get over it.
2006-07-29 13:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't hav elistened to his friend, instead, you should hav egone to him about it. If you knew him well enough you would've known if he was lying or not. But IDK, my personal thing is, unless I love the girl that broke up with me, and she realized that she made a mistake a little while later, II'd get back with her, only if i loved her though. If not, I wouldn't
2006-07-29 13:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jaymz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were the one to break up with him.. then i think its time for you to go back to him.. somebody has to really start... and if it's you then it's better....
to continue a rel.ship it's better to give away your ego.. moreover with what you said i feel you both should be together again..
2006-07-29 13:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by yrzfuly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered iy yourself, you broke up with him.....he's not into playing games, or wanting to feel like he's suppose to be there only when you want him....he's moving on, regardless o how he feels.you hurt him girl!
2006-07-29 13:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by dazed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, our minds are very complex, give him a few more weeks. Then talk to him about it again. Good luck!!!
2006-07-29 13:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevilfan0888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too left my boyfriend cuz he was cheating on me. Just talkl to him and continue to be his friend. He may feel like he isn't good enough for you.
2006-07-29 13:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Your Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him, and he doesn't wanna have that again, and I don't blame him. Let him alone.
2006-07-29 13:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋