But u don't want to be mean with that person.
2006-07-29 06:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by olde finnn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, most guys like to be friends with the one they love, just tell him that its not working and you want to be just friends!! And get a pet monkey and name him Quadeloopay. And well you should pet him and feed him every day.!!
2006-07-29 06:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by desolate_pepsi_101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to love them back? When the person is so into you sometimes it's easy. If you had but can't then try to break it to them softly. No matter how soft or mean you sound they will still be hurt but it has to be done. You have to seek your own happiness and if it isn't with that person then you have to move on. Take in count that that person will be hurt deeply. So explain to them why you have to break up. Usually saying "I'm Sorry" at the end makes the person feel worse so try to break it to them nicely.
2006-07-29 13:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that is a horrible position to be in. There is no easy way around that. You are going to hurt him no matter what you say. But, you have to be true to yourself. And, you have to do it soon.
The worst thing you can do is string this along. It is not fair to him and its not fair to you.
Take a deep breath and tell him that you really care for him, but you just want to be friends. If he is really into you he is going to be devastated. But, you've got to do it and do it now. And, you have to do it in person.
2006-07-29 13:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Just a Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never break with anyone,making is always difficult.just get the going slow n if possible just inform him that u r getting engaged to someone else.
2006-07-29 13:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by kishan k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, u didnt tell him u loved him now did u? i would try to get out of the relationship as soon as possible because it could lead him on, and he will eventually fall for u more. try talkin to him about it lettin him know how u feel in a calm manner.
2006-07-29 13:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce them to a friend
2006-07-29 13:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tony A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let someone else tell him that you were never intrested in him. and lit him on that your not saying this to be mean.
2006-07-29 13:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by me lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what they did to me is like :stop all sort of contact and slowly left it behind, then we were off
2006-07-29 13:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them down and have a serious talk with them and tell them how you feel and always did!
2006-07-29 13:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you jast have to say i dont love you and never did so what if your mean you have to do what you have to do
2006-07-29 13:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by ruby k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋