A girl who says she wants to be my girlfriend admitted she willingly performed oral on another man. Yesterday, he performed oral on her. As far as I know, there has been no intercourse.
I find this extremely unnerving. I have been suffering severe anxiety because of it. I can't cope with it. I am not sure what to do.
2006-07-29 02:41:56 · 30 answers · asked by TheSkeptic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound to be interested in the girl beyond liking.
so better be sure if you can take her such intimate acts with other men at your cool b4 you jump to any relation making.
I feel that if she doesn't see her relation with other men objectionable,she's not serious about being your girl friend.
good luck.
2006-07-29 02:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREATHE, unless you intend to marry a 13 year old the chance are any girlfriend you have is going to have had some sexual experience. I know this doesn't sound too great at this moment, but once you get a few experiences under your belt you'll forget all about this feeling now. Sounds to me like she prime for helping you out to get some sexual experience.... if nothing else use her for that. Best wishes
2006-07-29 09:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean this cruel, but she says she wants to be your girlfriend and she is both giving and receiving oral in the past few days? She is what I call, "Everybody's Baby"! I know it's hard to accept, but you need to run away from her, not merely walk. Easy said I know, but you have to do it! Good Luck!
2006-07-29 09:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has issues, you don't say you want to be someone's girlfriend and turn around and do something with some other guy. Some people have different views on things it's possible that she doesn't think she is doing anything wrong.
2006-07-29 10:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says she wants to be your girlfriend. Do YOU want her as your girlfriend? If not, who cares. You sound a bit sexually inexperienced to be so bothered by these reports. Maybe this girl could help you break out of your shell. You don't have to become "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" for that to happen. Just treat it as a sexual learning experience.
2006-07-29 09:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she want to be with you if she's getting all of that from someone else. Why is she telling you that? Are you lacking in that area of ORAL sex. She doesn't sound like someone that you would want a committed relationship with.
2006-07-29 09:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress over a girl like that. Find someone that does want to be your girlfriend for real.
2006-07-29 09:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by bopbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Grief!! She hardly sounds as though she is committed to you. What sort of a girl wants to be with you and has sex with someone else? She sounds like a tramp to me. Forget her and find someone you can trust and not be nervous about.
2006-07-29 09:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sue W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers you because you like her, but she just told you she sucked someones dick, man keep it moving, i mean **** her but dont make her your girlfriend, youmight as well take the other guy to the movies and kiss him in the mouth
2006-07-29 10:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by raradaone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl has cheated on you, dump her and move on with your life. Oral is still sex, even if there is not penitration.
Good luck!
2006-07-29 09:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋