I recently broke up with my boyfreind because he cheated on me..both of us we're sopposed to be taking sometime to re-evaluate ourselves. He still calls me 24/7 saying he loves me and this is the worst thing he could have ever done..and he wishes that he would have made the right decsion. Me and my bestfriend decided to go to the movies for the weekend ..to relieve some of my stress..So we're at the movies..we are on the way to our seats...going up the steps..and Guess who's there...Yep you guessed it my bf...holding the females hand that he cheated on me with..smiling and just having a good time. I confronted him...he didn't say one mumbling word. The girl he was with had the ploice escort me out..The whole time while he's just sitting there like a mute-mouth.
2006-07-29 02:39:21 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first somebody would get they feelings hurt, cause I would've straight cussed both of them out on the spot. I mean he can sit there and be as quiet as he can be, while I'm cussing him out. After I cussed them out, and dealt with the police, I would then just all out disconnect myself from him. Throw away everything he gave me, change my number, everything, and just try my hardest to completely forget him and avoid him.
2006-07-29 02:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was an unfortunate meeting but hardly inappropriate because by your own admission you were both taking some time apart to re-evaluate your relationship. Perhaps you interpreted that to mean that he should do so by himself, but maybe he thought otherwise...that's the thing with separations, no clearly defined rules. And while I admit it would've been wiser had he not gone out with (of ALL people) the one he cheated on you with, still there are no clearly defined rules when it comes to being separated. This actually speaks to a larger issue: your separation may, in fact, be a budding break up ( and I'm not saying that to be hurtful) but look at the facts: he's still maintaining contact with her after he knows her involvement has harmed your relationship, and he seems to be at peace with that. So, maybe you really should move on...because if you got back together, I guarantee you're going to argue about that very issue at least a time or two. Is it worth it to you? That's what you need to decide. Good luck in whatever you decide.
2006-07-29 10:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That pretty much should have helped you with the problem. He let her have the police escort you out??? What a weasel. You definitely can do better. You certainly can't do much worse.
If it makes you feel any better, just remember SHE is now stuck with him and he will do her the same way. Whenever he crawls back begging for your forgiveness, let him come over. Then call the police and have HIM escorted away and get a restraining order. See how he likes it, lol. : )
2006-07-29 09:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl loose the zero and get a hero.
There are more fish in the sea.
He is trying to play with your emotions.
Fight fire with fire.
Stop taking his calls.
Get you a new friend and get out there and start dating.
That heffa had the police escort you out. OMGosh he's an idiot.
2006-07-29 09:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your cool ignore is calls next time you see her thank her for taking in a cheater and let her know you will be there for her if she needs someone to talk to when he does the same thing to her. Actually you probably shouldn't say anything to her, but I have to admit it would be fun.
2006-07-29 09:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done the right thing . he deserve that becuase he has played with your emotions as being dishonest to you. You should fell more confident that you have done the right thing. You are certainlty a brave girl Keep it up.
2006-07-29 09:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must now be confident that you should stay broken up. He was dishonest with you and also tried to play on your emotions.
2006-07-29 09:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u need to forget bout him move on. Next time he calls dont answer. cut off all his communication to u.
2006-07-29 09:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by krayzeman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋