For women: why are men attracted to you?

Question

What is it about you that men are attracted to and also what is it about you that men are not attracted to?

Answer 1

My appearance.People find me approachable.I believe I am average looking.Brown hair,Blue green eyes,nice smile.Good listener.
Men are not attracted to my independence.With me you get the real deal and I will not spare you.I love high heels and smelling good.Soft skin and hair.Men would like to think it is for there benefit and are sometimes hurt to find that it is not.

Answer 2

Wow good question.....

I would love to say that intially they are attracted to my sparkling personality LOL but I think what men notice about me first if I am out somewhere is my chest. Then once they start talking to me they find out there is a whole lot more too me than that. I am actually quite a goofball and i love to make people laugh. I would like to think that i am intelligent and can hold a conversation. I think I am pretty but I would not say I supermodel pretty, more like the girl nextdoor pretty.

As for things about me that are unattractive I would have to say sometimes I can nag about things, but it is usually because I try to be a very organized person and I sometimes have a hard time realizing that not everyone around me will be on the same page. I sometimes get frustrated easily but if i know i am not in a great mood that day I try to avoid any situation that will be too heavy LOL because I hate taking things out on people.

Answer 3

First of all, I am very cute :).

But...

I have a very bold sense of humor and I hold nothing back. Sometimes, I truly shock people with the stuff that comes out of my sweet little lips. I forget that others are offended by things. It takes a lot to shock me. I'm also very smart. Few things get past me and I like to debate and overanalyze things until they mean nothing.

These things both attract men and scare them away. I've been told that I am very "sweet and innocent-looking" until I open up my big mouth. Physically, I am quite petite, but my personality belies that fact. Some men like to be kept on their toes. Others might be slightly intimidated.

Answer 4

three years ago I would have intitially said they were attracted to my figure. I was very proud of it. I cant say it was my beauty. I am attractive but no raving beauty. But I think the reason I have kept the men all 2 of them ..........in my life still is that we liked each other. I think what they always were attracted to was my warmth and I dont mean my body heat.

Answer 5

I have a great sense of humor with the right person. I'm friendly and thoughtful. I'm respectful, honest, sincere and I don't have many hangups. I'm affectionate and love to cuddle. I'm afraid that my qualities that they don't find so attractive are ... I bite my nails and I smoke.

Answer 6

depends as to what type of women and situations attract a MAN on a romantic level. as for MYSELF-simple,natural with certain amount of intelligence,sensuality and most especially sensible approach to LIFE.
not attracted-haven't experience,so far so good!

Answer 7

Well, I guess initially it's always 'looks' isn't it? You can't see scintillating wit emanating offa body, just 'compatability'. So it's different things at different times. Sometimes the blonde hair, sometimes the legs, othertimes men seem enraptured over my little red polished toenails. Sometimes it's the little black whip.

lol.

Well, what chases them away? I guess my sense of humor could be one thing. Or maybe it's that little black whip.

Answer 8

because i believe all men [and women] want me - i believe it so much this passes onto everyone else, and they believe it too. better than that - they want me too.

i also know that i can have anyone i want - that makes me attractive - i dont have to try.

Answer 9

Attracted coz I'm unique, creative and different. Not attracted coz the man has not met me yet. ^.^

Answer 10

my personality attracts.

my independent thinking scares them away.