because i know she is not into me(dont ask me how,i am sure she doesnt feel the same way) i feel really hopeless this time. i feel sick and weak all day and dont want to do anything.its like im living in hell without her.School is closed and i cant see her(im 19 by the way,dont think im 12) what should i do? i really need help!!
2006-07-29 02:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sadly enough..There is nothing you can do, but accept that.
I mean you can try and get her attention and everything..
I feel that you should atleast tell her how you feel.
I mean think about if someone loved you for a long time, but never told you because they think that your not into them.
2006-07-29 02:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, this isn't love or a crush.. it's an infatuation.. go ahead and look up the definition.. You're obsessed with someone who isn't into you.. that's not love. There was a guy back in high school who used to chase after me all the time. He was so sweet about it. He drew me pictures and wrote me poems and letters. But the attraction just wasn't there for me. It's been three years since I've graduated high school. He contacted me and actually apologized for all the stuff he did back in high school. Realizing that we weren't meant for eachother. He moved on and now we're friends.. this is what we were supposed to be the whole time. But, he scared me away back then. If you have never pursued her than how do you know she doesn't like you.. or that the attraction couldn't potentially be there? If you know that this will never be than find a different girl to swoon over.. The sooner you find a love that is returned the sooner your spell will be broken over this girl. You will probably never stop having feelings for this girl.. but maybe you can get on with your life. Hope all ends well!
2006-07-29 02:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone you don't know and haven't dated. You can be infatuated with them or crave to be with them, but it's not love.
Telling her will do nothing to make her like you. The guy on the street corner can tell me he loves my car--that means zip to me.
You have to grow up and move on. 1> Whenever you obsess about this girl, go find something fun to do (ride bikes, go running, play video games, write a letter to grandma) 2> Find another girl.
2006-07-29 02:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her. It's the only way. Believe me, this feeling will pass. You'rre only 19. What you are feeling is perfectly normal for all young people to go through. This too shall pass.
2006-07-29 02:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her you care. Make her a cake like Pedro from Napoleaon Dynamite. Cards, flowers, email her... let your feelings be known so that you won't wonder and you will know the outcome. So that you can move on.
2006-07-29 02:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man. do one think get a red rose boque, fall into her suddenly, suprise her. put the boquet out and say those three magical words. its agamble with ur friendship but. U get ;love or u lose friendship. u need guts man. lots and lots of'em
2006-07-29 03:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for other female companionship this summer.
If you don't find a lover, ask the other girl out when you get back to school.
2006-07-29 03:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just telling her... if she doesn't feel the same, you'll get over it and eventually find someone who feels the same about you as you do them (here's a hint though: if you just tell her, you might be pleasantly surprised)
2006-07-29 02:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her,you've got nothing to lose!
tell her that you are in love with her,and ask her if she wants to be a friend with you!
and may be later came out something more...who knows?
2006-07-29 02:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel about her. Let her noe that ur interested in her and then give her some time to think about it.
2006-07-29 02:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋