av just had a huge argument with my bf.and am so sorry at the stuff a sayed.he sayed stuff 2.but now he wont talk 2 me...6 years together.i so want him back.. wot 2 do??
2006-07-29 02:06:28 · 17 answers · asked by shazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl.... I hear this so much. You can call me somewhat of an expert on relationships. Although its totally unfair to men: You gotta play the game. Heres what you do: Make him want you back. It might take a few weeks or even a few months. But just act like you are having fun. Go out, have a few drinks, meet some new people. Involve yourself in different things. KEEP BUSY! Not only will this help you not feel so awful all the time, But once he sees that you are perfectly functional without him, and you NO longer NEED HIM.... Hes gonna come back. I've done this, IT WORKS. We're married now. I truly feel that if I had stayed home after we broke up, and moped around.... Things would not be the way they are now. Good luck. If you need any more advice email me.
2006-07-29 02:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you chase after him because you're needy and leave messages every five minutes, you'll do more damage.
Leave one short message and then don't call back. He can't miss you if you're always there.
You might be in intense pain right now and want immediate resolution, but that's not how things work.
If you are meant for each other, a day or a week or a month apart doesn't matter. He'll come back when he's ready, or he won't.
Go find something else to do while your obsessing? Get your nails done, have fun, go bike riding. Be responsible for your own happiness.
2006-07-29 02:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur sorry. but id give it a few days. sounds like he owes a im sorry to. dont sweat it after 6 years u should b able to work threw a arguement
2006-07-29 02:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by krayzeman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody reacts that way at 1 time or another give him space and time . apologise for what u said that u think was horrid its a good first step
2006-07-29 02:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by hairy_homer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as he won,t talk to u try getting a friend to talk to him r write him a letter telling him how u feel and ask him can u talk it over.if he has any feelings for u he will talk but he may need a little time
2006-07-29 03:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by herberto48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just swallow your pride and apologise. He won't throw 6 years away with you, unless it was over something really bad.
2006-07-29 02:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry with innocent smile n give him sweet kiss.he will surely walk back to ur life
2006-07-29 02:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry if you speech is as bad as your writing the chances are he didn't understand a word.
2006-07-29 02:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling him or leave a message on his phone
or wait til u both cool off and then email him or something
maybe its better that its over too...
2006-07-29 02:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would try to make things up as soon as you can, as the longer you leave it, the worse it will be.
2006-07-29 02:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋