Can anyone give me versus in the bible where i can heal from a bad relatioship?

Question

I've fell 4 a guy who's not a Christian. I know i shouldn't but somehow, my feelings got the better of me. I lost control and felt lost. I made it clear once n for all n confessed 2 him. My exams r juz around the corner. I'm affected emotionally. I alwiz pray... I wanna love Him more. God really helped in this. But i want sth in mind to keep me strong. I wanna have the determination, strength and wisdom in studying. I don't wanna feel down b'coz of someone whose's not worth it. I need to move on. Pls help me out.

For those who answered my question, i wanna thank u n may God bless u. I've been in this ordeal for 1 year and it's time to let go. I chose Him, not this worthless guy who i thought is a gentlman. Pls help. Thx

Answer 1

Keep up the faith....pray and ask God to help you thru this ....better yet , pray and ask God to show this guy the light, the path and the truth. Ask Him to use you to teach the guy that there is a God and he needs to repent.
Never sacrifice your faith in God for any human. He said, "Ask and it will be given, Seek and you shall find" But you have to believe when you ask. Leave your burdens with God and He will take care of them.

Answer 2

You are feeling this way because you feel as though you made a mistake. This is understandable; mistakes in relationships are common. Sometimes our hearts get way ahead of our common sense. At times this can leave us feeling damaged and a bit worthless for a while. The thing we need to remember at these times is this.

God determines our worth.

It is irrelevant how others see us.
God saw us as being valuable enough that She wanted to create us just the way that we are.
This is all that matters.

Humans are often confused and we have strange ideas about the value or worth of others and ourselves. These conclusions or judgments that we make at these times are meaningless. They are seldom even based on logic much less a compassionate understanding of the situation.

All we really need to do is try our best to follow the teachings of the great masters like Jesus or the Buddha. If we follow the simple rules they left for us, no more is necessary.

Jesus asks that we love our neighbor and ourselves. If we can actually do this we will be fine.

The Buddha asks us to have a deep respect and concern for all living things. We are included in this idea too.

You can’t go wrong if you actually follow either of these ideas.

Truth is God made you, and thought of you as being a perfect creation just the way that you are.
All you need to do is recognize this as the truth.

Love and blessings
don

Answer 3

Wait a minute... how is the relationship bad? The only thing you've said about this guy is that he's not a Christian. That doesn't make the relationship bad, just challenging. If he's neglectful, emotionally or physically abusive, or his behavior is otherwise negative, then that is a bad relationship, but just being a different religion does not make the relationship bad. In fact, there are many successful interfaith relationships and marriages (I'm talkin' ministers married to witches).

I don't know of any Bible verses that can help you, but I will suggest somethin that you can do to find them. It's called bibliomancy: ask your question and open the Bible to a random page. Look at the page and read the first verse that your eyes light upon (not necessarily the first verse on the page). Think about how it relates to your question, then look at the surrounding passages, and see if they give any insight.

Answer 4

Are you saved through the Lord Jesus Christ. If so, then Psalms have all prayers from the heart, and songs of wisdom. I've been there before....... in darkness, in emotional upheaval, and in pain. Sometimes God allows us to go through these times to strengthen us or prepare us for his next will for our lives. You can focus on the day at hand, the bible says to do that, as the day has enough evil , and you don't know what tomorrow will bring. Just hold on to Him, and He will get you through.

Answer 5

Isaiah 61:3:

He will grant [consolation and joy] to those who mourn in Zion--to give them an ornament (a garland or diadem) of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, the garment [expressive] of praise instead of a heavy, burdened, and failing spirit--that they may be called oaks of righteousness [lofty, strong, and magnificent, distinguished for uprightness, justice, and right standing with God], the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.

Psalm 34:18

The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.


Psalm 147:3

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

Answer 6

Only Jesus can heal you. Just kneel down and confess to Him and ask the Holy Spirit to guide your future. He will show you how to go about in this phase. I am sure, if you are sincere, that Jesus will show you where you should go to find a better Christian or if He wants it, He may change the same person.

Answer 7

HebrewsChapter 12 verse 12,Colossian 1:11,Psalms 147:3 Also read chapter 12,all of it. Hebrews 5 verses 11-14 and chapter 61-20I think that Tius 3:1-11 would be good to read 1 Corinthians 13:1-13. i hope these help, if you need more advice please email me at [e-mail]

Answer 8

Try Psalm 66:18 & 67.

Answer 9

Since you have realised your problem, you are now making progress. Good work. Make this decision clear to you.

Leaving such ungodly relationship definitely is not a loss.
"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers (II Corinthians 6:14, NIV)."

Know that love is not a feeling; love is a choice. Love is a mental attitude. Love is not an emotion (definitely love can be expressed through emotions):
"I pray that your love will grow more and more, and let it be based on knowledge and understanding (Philippians 1:9, NIRV)."

This is what the Scriptures say about a true Christian:
"So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view ... Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! (II Corinthians 5:16-17, NIV)."
"You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (Ephesians 4:22-24, NIV)."

A believer is made alive in the spirit but the mind should be renewed.
"Therefore, I urge you brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will (Romans 12:1-2, NIV)."

We know that rest comes from Christ:
"Come to me, all of you who are weary and heavily laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light (Matthew 11:28-30, NIV)."

Pray continually:
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6-7, NIV)."

About your studies, seek God's wisdom first and God shall provide you the wisdom that you shall need to attain scholastic success.
"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him (James 1:5, NIV)."

God alone can give fulfillment not just to your spiritual life but your physical life as well:
"As His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue (II Peter 1:3)."

Do not try to just convince your mind that 'nothing happened' trying to live a 'denying' life. Since we do not know you, try to seek deep counsel from RELIABLE fellow believers near you (ex. your pastor). Strengthen your relationship with other Christians and encourage one another (read Hebrews 10:22-25).

Answer 10

Man is born to trouble, as the sparks fly upward. Job v.7.