2006-07-29 00:10:01 · 20 answers · asked by marcel7023 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No maybe she is just not in the mood for it! Us women dont always have to have sex when a man wants to and vice versa. Its up to you to put her in the mood.
2006-07-29 00:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens too regularly, yes, your problems are starting. It may be that she is angry about something and you 2 can resolve the issue. If your problems are starting then she is starting to try to gain dominance in the relationship. You see the girls answers before mine? "Girls don't have to have sex just because you want to". They also say you should do all these things to get her in the "right mood". Bullshit!
How come earlier in the relationship she was ready and eager all the time? Women are like fishermen casting the lure. The lure is their body and they use it to hook you. You look at the lure and say, "that looks good", They have sex with you and that's you biting the hook. Then they say, "Oh not tonight, I'm not in the mood" or "I'm too tired". Then they start to reel you in. Sex and affection when you do what they want you to, I'm too tired and I have a headache if you did or said something that they didn't like.
After awhile, litle by little, they will have you jumping through hoops and thinking that the worst thing in the world is to hurt their feelings. By then you are firmly hooked and you're as good as in the fishing boat. Marrying them is them hauling you in the boat.
Don't get the wrong idea, I think marriage is fine, but not with a manipulative and domineering women which is what many of them become if you let them.
You have to stop this pattern in the beginning and if she is not willing, then move on untill you find a woman who isn't like that.
2006-07-29 00:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't happen in a matter of minutes. Have a really good day, do some fun things, go to cinema, for a meal then it all seems to be more natural, loving and fun.
2006-07-29 00:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try putting her in the mood first, by kissing her cuddling, playing, teasing etc. If she's still not up for it then maybe her feelings for you are not that strong for you anymore and then you two should talk. Hope everything works out.
2006-07-29 00:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just tired, i get like that to whan i look after 3 kids all day and go to work than come home and all my hubby can think about is getin hes c*** wet plz we need time out now and again.
2006-07-29 00:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, she could be tired or having her period or not in the mood. You cannot ask her for a roll-in-the-hay whenever you have a hard-on. Girls are more tempramental and sensitive than men.
2006-07-29 00:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip buffoon since when did she have to be up for it at your beck and call 24/7 ??? !!!
2006-07-29 00:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by King David of Spain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to god that her mood changes.
if things dont improve , look for someone else.
no one in this world however will/ can give you unconditional love!!
so do it yourself if your partner is not in a mood. let them see you doing it
2006-07-29 00:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by jude73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking a bath first, maybe it's the problem..or try gargling with astingosol or listerine
2006-07-29 00:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself, she doesnt have to perform every time you want a quickie!
pay more attention to her and spend more time just kissing and cuddling
2006-07-29 00:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by bananabex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋