he loves the kid too death and has been for me ever sceens i found out i was pregnet and i love him alot!!
2006-07-29 00:00:45 · 25 answers · asked by Lacey M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
yes why not?
i think is wonderful
ciao
claudia
2006-07-29 00:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by claudybuffy92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only after you two become married. Plenty churches have added a special ceremony segment into the traditional wedding ceremony, where the other parent accepts the child as their own. It's a wonderful way to bring the entire family together.
Until then, the child should not call him dad, nor should he be called his kid. It's great that he cares for the kid and all..but sometimes men do leave. Keep it at a friend thing, until the wedding is done.
2006-07-30 23:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Depends On Whether The Guy Is Good To Your Kid And If You Want This Guy to Be A Part Of Your Child's Life.If Not Then He Needs To Stay Out Of His Life.
2006-07-29 07:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Stajah Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is def. nice that he loves your child regardless of the fact that biologically the baby isn't his. You should have a conversation with your b.f about this though. Start with how much you appreciate how good he is to you, and your child let him know that you aren't trying to put him down in anyway. Then gently say that it is okay for him to accept/love your child, but to remember that children get attached easily. Let him know you are happy that your child has a positive role model in their life, but you also want to make sure your child is not confused or hurt if this relationship were to end. - If you are happy i hope it all works out for the best, but it is a pretty important thing to talk about with him and learn his opinion on.
2006-07-29 07:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids put a strain on any relationship where both are not biologically tied.
Is the biological father out of the picture?
Is this relationship serious?
If the answer to these two questions is "yes" - then your child is going to start to look at him at some point as some type of father figure.
2006-07-29 07:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by kpizura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason why not. If you make him keep his distance then your kid will learn that he will not have to listen to him then, you will start to lose a relationship with your boyfriend.
So many people chose their kid over a boyfriend and that is not how it should be, you all three need to work as a team. It is not just you and your child alone.
2006-07-29 07:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to ask yourself or even us that question because if you love this man and he loves your kid to death, he knows what he loves too. In my opinion, I think it is more than okay because most men don't even like children and/or holds grudges b/c the child isn't his! Keep that man!
2006-07-29 07:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is perfectly fine.
You should be happy that your boyfriend is so involved and loves your kid so much that he calls him his own. That's wonderful!
See, now your kid had a dad. That's a good thing!
2006-07-29 14:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, so long as the real father of the child is not involved in his life or your child is of age to be able to explain to him that perhaps he has "two daddies"--all depends on your particular circumstance. how great to find such a fabulous boyfriend!
2006-07-29 07:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by H F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok if the guy loves you but even more that his taken on being your baby s father all the best
but if the real father does not care dont lose sleep
2006-07-29 07:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by TONI K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is totally no harm in that! But if the real dad is involved in your baby's life, he might not like that. But if the real dad is not involved in your baby's life, that's totally awesome!!
2006-07-29 07:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by Janais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋