my mom has recently married a man who has a son. so hez is my stepdad. but my stepbro doesnot live with us. he visits us once a week for saturdays and sundays .my step bro is atrracted towards me. he wants a relationship with me. i`m 19 yr. ol gal and he is 21. initially i refused. but last week wen he visited, the both of us wer watching a movie. and he proposed me again. i refused, but something wrong happend and we end up smooching. wot shall i do?
2006-07-28 23:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Two things.
1. You are old enough to find a place to live on your own. Perhaps he just sees you as the most easy conquest.
2. Let you mom and new step dad in on the situation. As a girl, attention can make it hard to say no to what feels good. Mom's are usually good barometers of these issues.
2006-07-29 02:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by sammbertt 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Although you two are not related by blood, you are still considered brother/sister (your mom married his dad). So I don't think its nice to have a romantic relationship with him. Plus, it's like a promo...his dad married your mom and you are the "free". Be careful! He might mistook you as a easy sex object who he can get whenever he wants.
2006-07-29 00:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's perfectly OK. You're not related, and if it's meant to be you'll find a way to convince your parents.
Of course if it's just a bit of fun you'll probably find it's more trouble than it's worth. I guess you have to gauge how serious you are about eachother.
2006-07-28 23:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Oli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like him? even if, i think you shouldn't let this happen... you are relatives in fact. maybe you should talk to your mother (and your stepfather). maybe they can help. try explaining your stepbrother that a relationship between the 2 of you is not possible. it's a difficult situation that you are in... well.. i hope you manage to solve it in the best way. good luck!
2006-07-29 00:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by raingirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your mother, tell her about your problem. She will help you deal with it.
2006-07-28 23:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by bistekoenighasteangst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. You are easy sex to him and that is all he sees.
2006-07-28 23:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by uglyvanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋