Why is it that most men only dances with the woman just in the beginning of the relationship and then stops?

Question

I've even seen men dance with their wives on their wedding and then never again! Don't they realize that most women love to dance, and that dancing to women is part of the "foreplay" for them? Example: What do women do when they are single? They go out with their friends and go dancing ... only to meet men, they dance with them, and the cycle starts all over again!

Answer 1

It's part of "the dating game" that a lot of relationships go through. The guy will do whatever makes the gal happy, making his place in her heart more firm. My hubby also used to dance with me too. I found out, after we were married, that he really didn't like dancing. He just liked the closeness part of dancing. He really had two left feet, if you know what I mean. For us gals, the dance is more than just exercise. It's an enticement, used to get the guys' attention and hold it. And it works. Even after women are married, and go out with the girls to a dance. They still want to be noticed and appreciated, knowing that they've still "got it". My suggestion? Put some romantic music on your boombox at home, take him in your arms and dance him around the house. You never know where it could end! And it could put the spark, that's been kinda dim lately, back into your relationship. Try it. Might work. Wouldn't hurt either! <*)))><

Answer 2

I am glad you said most men in your question. I love to dance and if I was anywhere but Iraq I would go to the club every weekend and go danceing. I guess the reason most men stop dancing is either they can't dance or they dont like to dance. Now I say can't dance but it comes down to the music that is playing. For example hiphop: Either they are to embaresed becasue they cant move like their woman or there are guys there that can dance better than them. I would say the best way to get your man to dance and this is just my opinion. Find out why he wont dance and if he is honest then work on it. Practice with him at home and when you get to the club you will be the hottest couple there. I never needed any practice to dance myself but when my girl and I hit the club there would be noone on the floor but us and while we are looking in each others eyes throughout the song, by the time the dance was over every couple in the club would be on the floor with us. This is just the opinion of a dance aholic guy. good luck with your man.

Answer 3

Depends on culture probably true like here in London. However I| come from a caribbean background and we love to dance especially the older folks and when there are parties etc There is a lot of slow dancing, Nat King cole type waltzing, Soca , reggae, and sometimes pop. No.... dancing dont really stop in our culture even when we are holding a conversation or doing the housework and the music is going on.

Answer 4

We have more interesting things in our wives to concentrate in. Dance is a way to approach a girl, but when u can dance in bed, why dance on floor?

Answer 5

We put all or dance mojo into the wedding dance and then were all danced out. Its nature, we have nothing left to give after that.

Answer 6

Dancing is not the fancy of most men. They are into things like sports, more than anything else.

Answer 7

Woman like 2 dance, man not. Ok, then why woman make flirt only in the beggining and then is very serious in relations?? Men don`t like it too.

Answer 8

because men do that kinda stuff to get the girl, once he has her he dosent need to get her any more, men would rather get head for foreplay than dance.

Answer 9

If you love to dance and you want yours man to love it too, don't you ask him to go to dancing school...that would be more fun for you and him both....that is just my idea....

Answer 10

cuz U can't catch flies with salt, if u catch my drift.probably the same reason y they help cook and even clean in the beginning and then they jus start taking u 4granted!!!