i'm in a very loving and healthy relationship and my bf and i always have great sex. at the moment a distance of more 1000km is separating us for the nxt 4mnths. i really miss him. should i feel guilty when i masturbate occasionally? For the guys: how do you feel about your gf masturbating?
2006-07-28 23:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by jade 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
thanks you guys for being such adults and giving me straight answers. it's going to be difficult to choose a best answer
message to 9inches: grow up and learn how to read and spell. eish....
2006-07-29 00:02:03 · update #1
Take video of yourself masturbating and send it to him. Then he can masturbate to the video of you masturbating.
And if you don't mind, maybe send me a copy.
Ok, just kidding about that second part, but no problem with the masturbating part, whether you send him pictures of it or not.
2006-07-28 23:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a healthy part of any ones life. For women it can help you get in touch with your body much better and help you to know exactly what it takes to please you. It is a great way for you to practice your kegels and keep your sexual muscles toned up. Although it can be an added element to a good relationship masturbation is something that belongs to you. :) Enjoy your sexuality, I am sure that your friend would much rather you take care of things yourself rather than scumming to temptation in 3 months or so. If you cant get past feeling guilty about it, think about you boyfriend as your doing it and contract those muscles every chance you get. When he comes home he will be able to feel a difference in you and be glad of your efforts. ;)
Much Peace
2006-07-29 06:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be so very happy if you were my girl and we were apart and all you did was masturbate ( Instead of cheating on me ) And you should never be feeling guilty about it!!! It really turns me on when I watch or hear a woman doing herself!!! So I say have a go at it when ever you miss him(or whenever you feel like it!!!)
2006-07-29 06:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it is a turn on for a girl to be masterbating. I was in a r/ship 3 years ago where there were 12,000 kilometers between us, but we talked a lot on the phone and need i say over three months we had good phone sex. When we got back together the sex was absolutely amazing and we went for it pretty much all night.
Girls, Masterbating is a turn on!
**** over the phone to him...you will both love it! Have fun (-:
2006-07-29 06:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by linuxrunner_nz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like food, which shall not be taken out of proportion. If you feel that urge, there is nothing wrong in satisfying yourself, provided you have not committed sins like adultery or so.
2006-07-29 06:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a healthy intrapersonal relationship is just as important as a healthy interpersonal relationship. masturbation is just as much a part of life as sex is. it's healthy to let go and treat yourself every now and then.
2006-07-29 06:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by dmrukifellth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a dumb questio of course of gay dudes masterbate like me and my boyfriend hy this is gay dudes stevie and daveey what in the heel kind of stupidd question is this anyways, and broads masterbrating okay yeah right, glasd we decided too go the gay routees, we are laughing so hard at this stupidd questionn, broasds masterbrating right
2006-07-29 06:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are ok for doing it, I wouldnt care Id rather my wife masturbate than cheat on me.
2006-07-29 06:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by The King of All Answerer's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its much better to satisfiesd urself with own hand, rather then going to another person. at least it dont break beleive between a pair.
bes of luck anyway
2006-07-29 06:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by praveen jain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you shouldn't feel guilty when you masturbate - he's doing it too you know!!
2006-07-29 06:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋