i told a girl my love feelings for her, she never showed any sign of interest, all she said was she does not want distraction and that time would tell whether to go in or not, i continued telling her i really meant what i told her but she still never gave in, so i stopped telling her my feelings, but i call her almost everyday, after sometime i noticed we started relating fine, she talks to me freely and stuffs like that. But the problem here is i dont know her state of mind with me, whether she takes me as a friend or as date. Should i ask her if we are dating or we are friends.
2006-07-28 23:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.....probably she is taking her time to decide........wait for some time and act cool...........but when it starts to trouble you and you cant ake it no longer .......talk your heart out
2006-07-28 23:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by pariksheet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u never ask her that question
wt u can do is
try to play it back and forth .
if u ddnt call wt ll happen , will she call u ..
there must be something from her towards u .
maybe friend, brother, or a BF
so u need to measure how much she cares for u ..
and after sometime u can wonder through like saying u like this other girl that u think she is cute , etc.
and see how she reacts.
and even then tell her ur real feelings if she showed no interest u can say . i dunno if we r dating or not. cause i feel at the moment i need to have a gf. " if u wanted that " if u r happy where u are which i doubt , leave it the way it is .. u r enjoying her company anyways. and maybe she is a good person and wants to spend more time with you without having to call it in names like dating, friends or couple..
u have to be intelligent..
2006-07-29 06:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Darkness S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone has the capability of showing externally his/her feelings. In your case I would leave it for some time, forget all about the interest and continue your friendship as it comes.
After some time go to a relaxing place and discuss the subject direct to the point. From that moment you can make your own decisions of whether she really wants to be with you or not.
Good Luck
2006-07-29 06:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-07-29 06:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask her you dont want to just hang around wasting all yr time and energy on someone that doesnt want anything to do with a relationship other than friends when you could be out there meeting other girls
2006-07-29 06:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are fortunate that she is still talking to you everyday & taking you as a friend.why get so anxious to tight her down as yr steady gf or lover.relationship need to nuture & patient & understanding.
2006-07-29 06:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.Somethings can't be wait.Grab the chance to tell her your feelings before it is too late.
2006-07-29 06:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nickname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let time solve it. she may not be sure about u, yet. she seems interested, so she will show up her feelings soon.
2006-07-29 06:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you one thing... SHE'S NOT YOUR GIRL!!!
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2006-07-29 06:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋