i have been with my boyfriend for one year and ever since a month ago he goes out every weekend and stays out he is telling me that he is working in the weekend
do you think he is cheating on me?
we havent had sex yet do you think that would have anything to do with it
2006-07-28 22:47:46 · 14 answers · asked by Sally K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be, why don't you talk to him!
2006-07-28 22:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you, then the sex issue won't come as a problem. If you think that this is the problem between you, then it means he isn't the guy you thought he would be. Do you really think he's cheating on you? Then try to find out if that's true or not. Ask him first about this and if you see he's avoiding to tell you, then leave it and don't argue with him...it will only make it worse. Here's my advice: get another phone number that he doesn't know...for example, a good friend's number...start placing him missed calls and he'll surely send you an SMS or call you...if he calls...let a girl answer it and set a date with him in the weekend. If he accepts it...then you caught him. Let that girl go to the date and tell you what happened. I don't know if it's a good advice. but you can try it. :)
2006-07-29 05:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him a few times.
Or sneak up on him.
Did he just take a shower when he comes back?
If he's telling he goes to disco X, and you go there a hour later and he isn't (do it twice or trice), confront him with it. (That he lies and that you therefore can't trust him (anymore). Don't start about cheating yet.)
Or hire an detective. He can make pictures. This way, you'd have proof if he cheats. Handy if you'd need to go to court. If he catches the detective making pictures, he can say he's hired by the NSA, and that the NSA doesn't confirm any projects of this type. (What type, is to be kept secret.)
2006-07-29 05:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by · 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but dont sleep with him bc you want to keep him.
If you can't find him or contact him at work he is probably messing around or out having fun.
If u guys are fighting alot he could just be getting away from you.
2006-07-29 05:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a women usually knows. Follow him on the weekend and see for yourself.
2006-07-29 05:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find out where he is working during the weekends and pay him a visit at his work.
2006-07-29 05:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusions.
He could be working. If you can't even trust your guy then you have a lot more things to worry about.
2006-07-29 05:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`d say yes it sounds like he is cheating on you
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2006-07-29 05:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by melfik06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They guy is a scumbag. Why are you still considering him your boyfriend ?
2006-07-29 08:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by ChevalierCourageux 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is running around on you...don't have sex just to keep him....
2006-07-29 05:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out that site. www.crushcalculator.com. hope it helps
2006-07-29 06:18:54 · answer #11 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋