Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with her dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know how I'm gonna explain it to my girl about what happened.
2006-07-28 21:57:27 · 32 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, maybe you shouldn't if you know it will bother her...I mean yes it is important to be honest...but if this honesty will ruin everything and cause her more harm then maybe you shouldn't tell her. Furthermore, if you slept with her father, maybe you were just horny and couldn't help yourself...
If you really must tell her, then I recommend you tell her honestly and sincerely. I mean tell her that you have something important to tell her, tell her it was a mistake and won't happen ever again and that you are sincerely sorry. Then tell her what happened and maybe she will forgive you...if not then she may break up with you and that is her choice.
2006-07-28 22:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you already know this but damn, that is one "sticky situation." Umm if i were you i would bury the hell out of this thing and go to counseling to try and get this out of my system as soon as possible. If you tell your girlfriend what happend i garuntee she will never look at you the same; side note this may destroy any relationship she has with her father. Do the right thing and conceal this odious event from the world.
2006-07-28 22:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE, Whattt!!! Let me get this strait, your girlfriends dad stuck his you know what, you know where, and took your cherry. Um mm I'm really speechless. Man i hope your making this up because if its true you have or will have some serious psychological issues, not to mention what other guys are going to say if they know you. If i was in this situation, and thank GOD I'm not, i think this may apply a rape. The balls were in your court dude, its your choice where to go with this.
2006-07-28 22:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by t-bomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know how that is possible if you're not gay or raped by her dad.
If you're really gay, then you don't need to worry about "your girl". Just break up because there is no point being together.
Even if you're not gay, you should still break up... imagine if you get married and her dad becomes your father-in-law. Complicated.
If you're raped, though... then I don't know what to say... but it doesn't sound like you are traumatised anyway.
2006-07-28 22:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by What's Your Problem? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dating is doomed, whether it does not end precise away. too plenty everlasting harm accomplished. in case you reside together with her and don't tell her, then you definitely are including insult to harm by being deceitful. think of what a fool she would be able to sense like, and he or she does not deserve that. Asking her to forgive and overlook something like that's asking too lots of her. How ought to she? this is doomed. You screwed it up (by her twisted, cruel, inconsiderate, perverted, egocentric dad). study your lesson and additionally study the thank you to deal with your liquor. even once you're ingesting, you're finally in charge for the selections you're making.
2016-10-01 05:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by morabito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is crazy.... how in the world did you all get in this mess? This is rape isn't it? In the first place you'd be more worried about yourself than whether or not you're going to tell your gf.
It's so embarassing for her! Go get yourself some help, man. I think u don't know your own gender or sex preference!
2006-07-28 22:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way i think of is contact the POLeeece. Because your man cherry has been stole. Unless you're female- you were not very clear in the question. If you are female & you tricked her dad- tell her after either one of you is dead- that will insure no hard feelings arise-
2006-07-28 22:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Shuffleking Jr. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
queers are funny
only a gay guy woud tell because first thing girlfriend is gonna do is call all your friends and her friends and then she's gonna tell her mom and your mom and finally your dad
so if you want to see what kinda kink your dad is into, go ahead .. tell her .. and oh yeah .. to all here that think its a good idea to tell .. umm he aint married, this aint war, and no one died
2006-07-28 22:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by tonkatruk_2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THIS WAS A ONE TIME OCCURRENCE, MAKE SURE IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN. SINCE YOU WERE NOT SOBER, IT WAS A MISTAKE AND NO SENSE TELLING YOUR GIRLFRIEND. AND DON'T FORGET, IT WASN'T JUST AN ERROR ON YOUR PART, IT WAS THE FATHER'S MISTAKE/ERROR EVEN MORE SO BECAUSE HE SHOULD KNOW BETTER.
IF YOU TELL HER YOU'LL JUST END UP HURTING ALL 3 OF YOU, IT'S JUST NOT NECESSARY FOR THIS MISTAKE. MAKE SURE IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN AND YOUR CONSCIENCE WILL BE CLEAR.
IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN, YOU WILL HAVE TO TELL HER.
2006-07-28 22:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by PAULA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now don't do foolish act , forget it as a bad dream or be ready to loose your love forever , better keep quite and keep within your heart and enjoy rest of your life .
2006-07-28 22:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋