I know they always stab me in the back. It's hard to find a boyfriend as it is, I also distrust men, but it's even harder to find a good girl to care about when they all stab me in the back.
2006-07-28 21:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes I feel the same way! It is very hard to make good girl friends! It always seems they are talking about somebody, hate their jobs, are jealous of somebody, hate their husbands, are negative all the time or have serious issues that take up to much of my time! I stick with hanging out with my sisters, and the situation is not much better! lol. I hope someone gives you some good advice on how to make real friendships with other women! lol, I need the advice as well. Oh, and I dont think there is anything wrong with us, and we don't need help! I just think its reality!
2006-07-28 21:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the girls you are hanging with. you need to work on some serious issues there. go see a counsellor. not joking. talk about your problems. you have em.......you may not recognize them though. but when you heal yourlself your judgement in friendships will get better. if this is happening to you with all kinds of women and men to...then its not them....its you. i mean theres something inside you that keeps pickin these kinds of people. not that theres anything wrong with you, but you do need to work on trust, bounderies, respect, compassion, understanding. it won't hurt to check it out. maybe you will find somethign there you didn't realize or see before.
2006-07-29 04:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most girls are backstabbers! I feel the same way.
2006-07-29 04:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋