What do girls/women look for in a guy?

Question

I want to know what girls/women look for in guys. From looks-to personality.
Dislikes and likes of what guys do. Example: "the toilet seat down"
Also what do guys do that is romantic, or what can they do...

I would appreciate it greatly, also please answer truthfully if you can =D

Answer 1

Looks and personality go hand in hand. A person should have enough pride in themselves to take care of their body and stay in shape, which leads to a physical attractiveness.

For me to be interested in a guy, I expect a lot of maturity, but not so much that they forget to have a sense of humor. Morals and honor are extremely important, and a good smile.

As for things that I don't like, well, chewing with your mouth open - I hate that. Leaving dirty dishes around until they are molding, although I put up with it from my brother all the time. I won't put up with excessive drinking.

There are any number of romantic things a guy can do, but what one girl finds romantic the next one might not. It depends on the girl. I just like spending some alone time with someone, talking and laughing, and just enjoying that person's company. But admittedly I have little experience in the matter so I can't really say I know what is romantic.

Answer 2

Dear Devan: Here are points I "appear" for & Like: *A Positive Mental Attitude~ *Profound Emotional-Intelligence~ *NO Deep-Seeded Psycho Baggage~ *NO High-Drama~ *EMPATHY~ *Higher Ed. Degree~ *Political/Philosophically Aware~ *Psychologically BALANCED~ *A Marketable Career Skill~ *Inner-Security~ *Females who are living in REALITY, NOT Disney~ *Effective Communication Skills~ *A Soft Sexy Voice~ *A Good Listener~ *Less Talk & NO Nagging~ *Social Style~ *Classy Attire~ *Street-Wise, NOT Sesame Street~ *Honesty & Integrity~ *Humbleness~ *Grace~ *Ability to Laugh at oneself~ *Sense Of Humor~ *Common Sense~ *Confident~ *Sophistication~ *Theological Awareness~ *Experienced~ *World-Class Traveler~ *Strong Family Ties~ *MATURITY~ *And Bonus Points, for having a HOT Body~ Slim/Trim/Sexy/Athletic! NO FATTIES! Does any of the above make any feel to you? I wish my sincere reply has been useful!

Answer 3

For starters he should be good looking. I don't mean handsome or pretty, but he should look like a man. Of course he must be honest, loyal, optimistic, clean and not too shy. He can spoil it all by being lazy or bossy, but he can earn extra points by not showing how bored he is when we go shopping or if he manages to surprise me sometimes.

Answer 4

hm ... It depends , but N 1 is self-confidence.